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summergirl
04-07-2007, 07:31 PM
Hay naku!kasi matanda na ako kaya never kong makipag chat sa taong hindi ko kilala except my family at puro kulitan lang pwede..kasi ang pinsan ko na in love sa ka chat nya.hindi nya pa nakikita pero na inlove na.Ano ba iyon!!Sorry to say this paano naman kung disable pala ang ka chat nya..Ang ka chat nya pa black american pa.Syempre puro sweet words at halos drawing ang sinasabi non,.Papabasa ko ang magiging sagot nyo sa tanong ko sa tanga kong pinsan..hahaha,baka maumpog sya kung marinig nya sa inyo..dedma lang sya pag ako ang nag-sasalita sa kanya eh..hahaha..tanga..
chichai
04-07-2007, 10:38 PM
I've started chatting when I was on my 2nd year on college... i think that was eight years ago... nakakaaddict? yeah kasi you get to talk to other people whom you do not know or meet and you can even pretend to be someone if you want to. in my case, naging cautious ako sa mga kinakausap ko and totoo sa sarili ko. im not a good liar eh. but i cant blame your cousin for falling in love through chat... coz i also did... i got married married to my husband whom ive met through chat. and now we're about seven years married... short or long?
Hindi naman natin napipili ang taong mamahalin natin eh, kusa iyon dumadating. Yun nga lang kapag sa chat nakilala madalas pinagdududahan... ang payo ko lang sa pinsan mo, dapat alam nyang dalhin ang sarili nya at iopen sa mga posibillidad na mangyari in the future. Iba pa rin kasi yung nakikita yung taong mahal natin. Sabi nga, to see is to believe... pero ako I believe with God without seeing him... its about faith... OT na yata... hehehe
nasty
04-07-2007, 11:26 PM
ako nmn depende dn sa taong ngcha chat ,as long as you can control yourself and your feelings about your chat mate ,you dont have to worry as well ,sana lng like sbi ni chichai san be cautious and almin ntin kung ano ang limitations ntin using chat ,and we have different beliefs and understanding about chatting.,,pra skin hindi cia nkaka addict:)itong timog ang nkaka adik:Dhehehe
la_tina512
04-08-2007, 08:54 AM
Depende sa tao, depende sa situation.
I got addicted to chat when I was new to yahoo messenger. Syempre andon ang curiosity to a lot of things. My friend persuaded and taught me and before I knew it I was hooked already. That time stressed ako. That triggered it. Wala akong makausap dito sa bahay after a day's work. Pagdating ng hubby ko kain, nood ng tv. Pag kinausap mo kung ano lang sabihin mo 'yon lang sasagutin nya. Pero pinili ko lang ang mga chatrooms na pinuntahan ko. Maraming 'sheep in wolve's clothings sa internet, mga lalakeng matatamis ang dila. I've met a lot of them but I stood my ground. Hindi ako nagtago of my real status in life and I didn't pretend of being someone na hindi naman ako. Naghanap lang ako talaga ng makakausap and it was very entertaining on my part. Most of them are still in my list and just the other day I received an online invitation para sa kasal of one of my chatmates in Indonesia.. Gosh.. Ano ako rich? :D He has become a good friend though.
Tell your cousin to go out and find someone in the real world. Mahirap humanap ng totoong tao sa chatroom lalo na guys. How can she be so sure na sya lang ang ka-chat non? Sorry pero that's what I feel with these men na nanliligaw sa chatroom.
docomo
04-08-2007, 02:52 PM
Hmm...I believe it can work. It might work out for some, but not all. I guess it's up to individuals.
However, my strongest opinion about this is the trust that involved ... not only trusting that the other person is telling the truth and giving you a true image of themselves (and quite honestly it is hard to give a true description of yourself anyway because each person will see different things in you and each person will have different "rankings" for the things you think are important about yourself) but also trusting your choices and judgements. Meeting someone in person you immediately get a sense of what the person is about and whether you would like to get to know them more or not...whereas on the internet you're almost always going to want to get to know the person more because the only sense you can use is your eyes ... and of course the telephone which will give you more of a feel for that person in question.
On the other side ,I don't think it matters too much where you meet mr/miss right, if you meet the right person then it'll work however/wherever you meet http://www.friendshipforum. co.uk/forums/images/smilies/smile.gif
fremsite
04-08-2007, 05:06 PM
Hay naku!kasi matanda na ako kaya never kong makipag chat sa taong hindi ko kilala except my family at puro kulitan lang pwede..kasi ang pinsan ko na in love sa ka chat nya.hindi nya pa nakikita pero na inlove na.Ano ba iyon!!Sorry to say this paano naman kung disable pala ang ka chat nya..Ang ka chat nya pa black american pa.Syempre puro sweet words at halos drawing ang sinasabi non,.Papabasa ko ang magiging sagot nyo sa tanong ko sa tanga kong pinsan..hahaha,baka maumpog sya kung marinig nya sa inyo..dedma lang sya pag ako ang nag-sasalita sa kanya eh..hahaha..tanga..
summergirl san ... hindi po natin alam ... malay natin magkatotoo nga .
why not give her a chance ... she's in love !!! :p :)
mamimo
04-08-2007, 07:46 PM
Ka-addict cguro ang chat kung interesante ang kausap mo o di kaya malakas ang sense of humor at nasa mood kang makichika pero kung walang katuturan ang usapan marami pang pwedeng gawin offline. As to the case of your cousin lets give her a chance afro-american man yan o disabled kung gusto nya mahalin bahala sya at kung maloko man sya ng kachat nya eh ganun talaga kahit naman face to face relationship may lokohan din. Sana lang bawasan ang expectations sa tao til the time na mameet mo to para di ganong masaktan.:)
infinite_trial
04-08-2007, 11:23 PM
nakakaaddict...i began chatting when i was 17 yrs. old. and purpose ko nun ay maimprove ang social skills ko. pero with our technology today...may voice chat, webcam, digicam, text, mms, video call...may paraan at paraan para makita mo ang kausap mo. so ako pag may kausap ako sa chat ngayon...if i'm interested, nanghihingi talaga ako ng picture. dapat madaming picture. kasi pwedeng nakawin ang picture sa ibang profile di ba? lalo na may friendster pa ngayon. kaya hangga't di ko pa sya nakikita live sa webcam, nakakausap sa phone at di nya ko mabigyan ng sangkatutak na pictures araw-araw...e drawing lang sya para sakin. bakit? hehe e kasi gawain ko dati ang manggoyo sa chat :glee:
mOtt_erU
04-09-2007, 08:49 AM
nUng highschool nahilig kame ng mga friends ko jan.....perO nagsawa din agad..
waste of time saken....no need naman to reveal your full identity sa kachat mo pero yung iba kase...ASL lang/ pa lang eh uso agad ang sagot......lokohan lang eh..I mean pwede mo naman protektahan identity mo na kahit pano eh asl mo man lang eh totoo.....tas may mga bastos pa sa chat kaya less than a week lang siguro akong naging chatter:biglaugh::D. .
perO dun sa mga nakatagpO ng partner o true love nila:confused: sa chat eh good for them...
ngayOn everyday ako nagchachat perO ~family ko kachat ko!:D:p:)
liong
04-09-2007, 09:30 AM
kasi ang pinsan ko na in love sa ka chat nya.hindi nya pa nakikita pero na inlove na.Ano ba iyon!!
Hi summergirl.. baka ako yung pinsan mo ha..?:p
nakakaAdik kahit lumalabo na mata...chat pa rin hanggang umaga..:D
aim, google talk, msn, yahoo, skype, at windows messenger di ako rehistrado jan..:p :D
mr.kuripot
04-09-2007, 05:30 PM
Di po ako nakikipag chat s di ko kilala..Ayaw ko bigyan ng chance ang sarili ko sa pakikipag chat baka nga kasi maadict ako..Marami akong kakilala na halos s chat na inuubos ang time nila mapa filipino o hapon at ayokong mangyari sa akin yun..Napakarami ko pang dapat gawin at diko uunahin ang pakikipag chat:D
About naman s cousin mo, bka naman kasi naghahanap sya at that time ng kausap at c black american nga ang swerteng nakausap nya...Siguro malalaman nya rin kung ano ang real intention sa kanya ng kano as time goes by..
shakey
06-23-2007, 04:37 PM
yes i agree dun sa nakaka addict ang chat..dati halos di na ako mag wrk para lang mag chat..grabe ha may magandang nadulot sa akin yang pag chachat..pumayat ako kc di ko na makuwang kumain dahil sa sobrang ka addikan sa chat,tapos jan ko nakilala si hubby ko ,di ba nakaka adik talaga.
bonbon'79
06-23-2007, 05:37 PM
Nakaka addict pala yang chat na yan? Buti na lang di ako marunong mag-chat. Hehehe... Pero magpapaturo pa ako sa kasamahan ko rito.
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