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nasty
10-05-2007, 08:58 AM
An angel says "never borrow from the future ",,if you worry about what happen tommorow and it doesnt happen,,you have worried in vain ,,,Even if it does happen you have to worry twice...."


PRAY.
go to bed on time
get up on time so you can start your day unrushed
say NO to projects than won't fit into your time schedule ,and will compromise your mental health...
delegate task to capable others
simplify and unclutter your life
less is more(although one is often not enough ,,three are often too many)
allow extra time to do things and to get to places..
pace yourself,,,spread out big changes and difficult projects overtime,,,dont lump the hard things all together
take one day at a time
separate worries from concerns,,,find out what GOD would have you do and let go of the anxiety,,,if you cant do anything about the situation,,,,forget it!
live within your budget,,,dont use credit cards for ordinary purchases
have back ups; an extra car key in your wallet,,,an extra house key burried in your garden ...extra stamps etc...
K.M.S.(keep mouth shut)this single piece of advice can prevent an enermous amount of trouble
do something for the kid in you everyday
carry bible with you to read while waiting in line
get enough rest
eat right
get organized so everything has its place
listen to a tape while driving that can help improve your quality of life
write down thoughts and inspirations
everyday find time to be alone
having problems?,,,find GOD and talk HIM on the spot...try to nip small problems in the bud,,,dont wait until its time to go to bed to try and pray..
make friend with GODLY people
keep a folder of your favorite scriptures on hand
remember that the shortest bridge between despair and hope is often a good "THANK YOU JESUS"
laugh
laugh some more
take your work seriously but not,,,yourself at all
develop a forgiving attitude(most people are doing the best they can)
be kind to unkind people(they probably need it the most)
sit on your ego
talk less listen more
slow down
remind yoursef that you are not the general manager of the whole universe
everynight before bed,,think of one thing that you're grateful for that youve never been grateful for before GOD has a way of turning things around for you"if GOD is with us ,,,who will be against us?(romans 8:31)

adechan
10-05-2007, 09:06 AM
An angel says "never borrow from the future ",,if you worry about what happen tommorow and it doesnt happen,,you have worried in vain ,,,Even if it does happen you have to worry twice...."


PRAY.
go to bed on time


amen

tinamaan agad ako sa number 2
kaya ako tinablan nang trangkaso, lagi kasing puyat, puwede namang ipaubaya na sa kinabukasan eh, sinasagad pa ang oras na dapat namamahinga na

may_abe
10-05-2007, 10:32 AM
:) Thank you for sharing..Here also from a friend..how to relief stress..


1) Get up 15 minutes earlier each morning. That gives you a little more time to eat something, run back to get something you forgot, or enjoy a cup of coffee before heading out the door. If you drive to work, a 15 or 20 minute headstart may decrease some of the traffic you face, and make the commute less stressful.



2) Prepare for mishaps. Make an extra copy of your house key and bury it in your neighbors' yard; make a second copy of your car key and tape it under your coworker's desk. Both may allow you to get home and inside the house if you loose your keys. If you do have to use them, pat yourself on the back for being smart.



3) Don't do something if you will have to lie about it afterwards. While this may seem obvious, the nagging guilt we feel often wears us down or makes us anxious about getting caught... Sure, it may be more time consuming to fax your resume to new job sites from a friend's house, but you don't have to worry about being caught.



4) Do something healthy for yourself. That could mean taking the stairs once a day instead of the elevator, picking one day a week to have a salad for lunch, or eating fresh fruit instead of a candy bar. What's the overall effect on your health? Maybe not much, but small steps lead to bigger ones, and doing something simple for your body is the best way to start.



5) Write it down. There is an old Chinese proverb that goes, "the palest ink is better than the most retentive memory." All those "Seven Secrets" tips are based on writing things down. Write down goals, errands, chores, due dates for projects and library books... Instead of just a "To Do" list, keep a "Have Done" list too. Move things over to that list after having completed them. At the end of the day, review how productive you were.



6) Do something special on a whim. Buy flowers for your partner unexpectedly. Sneak a small greeting card that says "I love you" into your child's lunch box. Bring donuts, bagels, or muffins to the office for others one morning. You get the picture. Someone else's smile and "Thanks" can sometimes make a bad day better.



7) Be willing to forgive others. Allowing others the right to make a mistake goes a long way toward forgiving yourself for mistakes. Assume that others are doing the best they can. This goes a long way toward doing the best you can as well.



8) Don't eat lunch at your desk. Get away to somewhere quiet or different if only for a 15 or 20 minute break.



9) Delegate new jobs. Say no to avoid additional responsibilities. Simplify. Put your best effort into a task, and ask yourself, "Is it really that important?" before you decide to do it over. Learn to ignore others' criticism sometimes.




10) Get up and stretch periodically. Twist side to side and bend front to back. Roll your head around to stretch your neck a bit. Trade shoulder rubs with a coworker. If you used to smoke, but have stopped, get up and take a break anyway when you feel the need to smoke. A quick trip to the water cooler, to a coworker's desk, or to the restroom doesn't provide the nicotine a cigarette used to, but it does give you the break and moment's respite a cigarette did.