pinay single mothers network buuin natin

[singlemom]

Tabi-tabi po sa mga TF members,



Naghahanap po ako ng katulad kong single mom na makakausap at makakasangga tungkol sa pareho naming buhay. Kung papaano tayo na mga single mothers na pilitan na maging dalubhasa sa maraming propesyon bilang teacher, nurse, doctor, at pulis sa anak sa kabila ng hirap na maging ligtas at malayo sa gulo. Bilang kalaro na kailangan na mabihisan si Barbie ng eksakto sa kahilingan ng anak. Bilang coach para sa encouragement na maging mahusay na manlalaro at maging maabilidad ang anak.

Tayong mga single mothers ay parang kompanya ng transportasyon na habang buhay na responsible sa pagbibiyahe at paghahatid ng kaniyang anak. Economist rin na hinahatak ang bawat yen upang maipagkaloob ang lahat ng kailangan. Mekaniko na sa kaunting kasangkapan ay pinagsasama ang mga turnilyo ng laruan. Karpintero na nagriripeyr ng tirahan at mga gamit sa bahay. Pero hindi nagpapakita ng pagluha sa kabiguan o pagkagapi.

Tayong mga single mothers ay mabilis at mapanglikha… mapagmahal at pasensiyosa… pero higit sa lahat, pagod. Walang tumutulong sa sa atin sa paglipas ng mga araw. Walang katuwang sa mga responsibilidad. Ang pagiging single mothers ay maraming trabaho, marami, na gagawing mag-isa na walang katulong at sa halos lahat ay walang nakakatulong. Trabaho na hindi iisipin ng karamihan na maisasagawa subalit nagagawa ng mga single mothers.

Dahil sa dami ng gawain sa trabaho at sa bahay kadalasan ay napuputol tayo sa mundo. Kaya iniiyakan natin minsan ang sarili tuwing gabi dahil hindi tayo si superwoman tuwing nadarama natin na kapos ang tapang at pagtitiis sa paglipas ng araw. Ang pagod ay palaging kasama sa ating buhay subalit hindi tayo maaring tumigil. Minamanhid ang ating katawan sa damang diskriminsayon bilang gaijin subalit walang pagsuko.

Tama na ang litanya sister. Kung feel mo ang napi-feel ko, iisa lamang ang ating kailangan natin gawin. Magbuo tayo ng network ng mga Pinay single mom para makapagtulungan tayo sa isat-isa. Mag-sharing tayo ng ating karanasan kung paano nilulutas ang mga prblema sa buhay gaya ng problema sa pagpapalaki ng anak, pagpapaaral, personal at skills development, visa problems at mahaba pa ang lisatahan.

Kung single mom ka na katulad ko at interasado na magbuklod tayo para sa ating kagalingan pagusapan natin rito sa TF kung paano at ano ang magagawa kung tayo ay magsasamasama. Sali ka. At kung medyo personal na usapan ay pwedeng i-pm na lang ako.


Post your reply and be counted as proud Pinay Single Mothers in Japan!



Labyu all sisters

Single mom

[musikaghie]

Hi Single mom,Welcome to TF Family:)

[singlemom]

Hi Single mom,Welcome to TF Family:)

maraming salamat musika sa iyong warm welcome. touch naman me.;)

[wildflower]

welcome single_mom sa tf....:dowave:

[singlemom]

welcome single_mom sa tf....:dowave:


maraming tenkyu wildflower

yaheyyy!!! dumarami na frend ko sa tf hihihih

[dreamlove]

more power to you single mom and very much welcome to timog.:)

[may_abe]

:D widow pwede ba? joke lang..welcome sa TF!!!

Pwede bang sumali? Ako eh, tsismosa lang. You need advise I can help anything related for marital status. I have small kids and having fun meeting other single mums(Asean women Asso.) in Tokyo.

[singlemom]

more power to you single mom and very much welcome to timog.:)

wow! dreamlove, talagang dream ng mga single mom ang love... hihihi salamat at welcome pala ako talaga

[singlemom]

:D widow pwede ba? joke lang..welcome sa TF!!!

Pwede bang sumali? Ako eh, tsismosa lang. You need advise I can help anything related for marital status. I have small kids and having fun meeting other single mums(Asean women Asso.) in Tokyo.

maraming salamat may_abe at ilalagay ko sa aking memory na ikaw ay isang handy person para sa mga advise related sa marital status.

advise kaya sa mga single mom kagaya ko kung papaano i-handle ang mga manliligaw... mahirap yata ne...

[dreamlove]

im a single mon for almost 5 years now. marami akong pwedeng i share,just incase na interested ka :) i have 3 kids as you see on my avatar still have to go a long way bago ako makagraduate sa kanila.....hehehehe. .:D

[may_abe]

im a single mon for almost 5 years now. marami akong pwedeng i share,just incase na interested ka :) i have 3 kids as you see on my avatar still have to go a long way bago ako makagraduate sa kanila.....hehehehe. .:D

Ang sipag mo rin..for 3..ang hirap yata. I'm frm kanagawa too.Magkalapit lang tayo..hardwork;) let's be friends here in TF!

@ Singlemom..
about sa manliligaw incoming or still searching?! Look for 3M( matandang mayaman madaling mamatay) for a big F's (future financial) TDH( tall dark and handsome) mag ingat, sa face baka yung inside eh,hindi pure. Doon ka sa maganda ugali kahit pangit..natutunan naman daw ang Love..kagaya ni sharon at Kiko.. its better friends muna..huwag basta magpapatali. Mahirap kase, annulment sa pinas mahal.
Stay away from a family man or broken family man..or not yet annuled. Just incase..showbiz controversies like Pops/Martin..Vina Morales..complicated
But I think, being single is the best!
Basta yung kids ay healthy..ok na yun..meron naman ibang paraan how to overcome stress just incase only men s d answers..:cool:

[dreamlove]

yes,hardwork talaga pero shiawase ako ngayon with my status.:) im here in yokohama how bout you? Miss May:p

[may_abe]

yes,hardwork talaga pero shiawase ako ngayon with my status.:) im here in yokohama how bout you? Miss May:p

Yokohama din..Tokyu denentoshi line..near azamino station. Minsan nasa Yokohama sta. :D
I'm happy for you..ikaw Miss dreamlove which part yokohama?ako Aoba ward. Nakapasyal ako Totsuka..area..at kawasaki..

http://www.jorudan.co.jp/english/norikae/e-norikeyin.html

[singlemom]

Ang sipag mo rin..for 3..ang hirap yata. I'm frm kanagawa too.Magkalapit lang tayo..hardwork;) let's be friends here in TF!

@ Singlemom..
about sa manliligaw incoming or still searching?! Look for 3M( matandang mayaman madaling mamatay) for a big F's (future financial) TDH( tall dark and handsome) mag ingat, sa face baka yung inside eh,hindi pure. Doon ka sa maganda ugali kahit pangit..natutunan naman daw ang Love..kagaya ni sharon at Kiko.. its better friends muna..huwag basta magpapatali. Mahirap kase, annulment sa pinas mahal.
Stay away from a family man or broken family man..or not yet annuled. Just incase..showbiz controversies like Pops/Martin..Vina Morales..complicated
But I think, being single is the best!
Basta yung kids ay healthy..ok na yun..meron naman ibang paraan how to overcome stress just incase only men s d answers..:cool:


hihihi... none of the above po ang aking type. singlemom na lang yata ako 4 life. salamat sis may abe

[singlemom]

yes,hardwork talaga pero shiawase ako ngayon with my status.:) im here in yokohama how bout you? Miss May:p

dreamlove bigyan mo naman ako ng business tip 4 extra income... please

[sky]

Ako hindi single mom.pero ganun din ang sumatotal.dahil para kaming walang kasama na tatay at asawa sa house.(welcome ba ako sa club?)

dream love hats off ako sa iyo. 3 anak mo pero ikaw lang bumubuhay.hindi ako nag karoon ng ganyan katigas na buto ah .tamad siguro ako :D

[mamimo]

@ol

Tanong ko lang sana kung sino may alam sa inyo ng NGO na pwede tumulong sa single mom na nangangailangan ng temporary shelter kahit hanggang makapanganak lang. May friend kasi ako 16yrs old preggy nakakulong ang bf nyang Pinoy for some reason tumakas naman sya sa bahay nila kasi gusto ng Nanay nya pa-abort ang bata.:(

[serenityjil]

yaheyyy!!! dumarami na frend ko sa tf hihihih

welcome po sa tf family single_mom... :tfrocks: :tfrocks: :tfrocks:

single mom din ako pero baguhan pa laNg sa larangan ng pagiging single mom...
mag-2 year old pa lang kasi anak ko...

buti naman po @ naiisipan nyo na gumawa ng thread for single mom like us...
:king: :thumb: :king: :thumb: :king: :thumb:

good luck po sa thread na ito... :) ;) :) ;) :) ;)

sana maraming single mom ang mag post pa...
:wavey: :wavey: :wavey:

GOD BLESS PO SA LAHAT...
:dowave: :dowave: :dowave:

[singlemom]

@ol

Tanong ko lang sana kung sino may alam sa inyo ng NGO na pwede tumulong sa single mom na nangangailangan ng temporary shelter kahit hanggang makapanganak lang. May friend kasi ako 16yrs old preggy nakakulong ang bf nyang Pinoy for some reason tumakas naman sya sa bahay nila kasi gusto ng Nanay nya pa-abort ang bata.:(

mamimo, may alam ako na pwedeng temporary stay sa case niya pero hindi ko pwede i-announce ang lugar rito. I-pm mo na lang ako para masabi ko sa iyo ang detalye at contact number nila.

[singlemom]

welcome po sa tf family single_mom... :tfrocks: :tfrocks: :tfrocks:

single mom din ako pero baguhan pa laNg sa larangan ng pagiging single mom...
mag-2 year old pa lang kasi anak ko...

buti naman po @ naiisipan nyo na gumawa ng thread for single mom like us...
:king: :thumb: :king: :thumb: :king: :thumb:

good luck po sa thread na ito... :) ;) :) ;) :) ;)

sana maraming single mom ang mag post pa...
:wavey: :wavey: :wavey:

GOD BLESS PO SA LAHAT...
:dowave: :dowave: :dowave:


Mabuhay ang mga single mothers!!! Kaya natin yan kahit tiis ang buhay.

[singlemom]

Ako hindi single mom.pero ganun din ang sumatotal.dahil para kaming walang kasama na tatay at asawa sa house.(welcome ba ako sa club?)

dream love hats off ako sa iyo. 3 anak mo pero ikaw lang bumubuhay.hindi ako nag karoon ng ganyan katigas na buto ah .tamad siguro ako :D


All mothers are all welcome di ba mga sisters????

Dreamlove idol kita at ng iba pang single mom!

[singlemom]

Single mom household income 38% of average

The Yomiuri Shimbun


The average annual income of households headed by a single mother who was claiming benefits such as child care allowance was 2.13 million yen in 2005, or about 38 percent of the average household income of 5.64 million yen, a Health, Labor and Welfare Ministry survey has found.


The figure was up 10,000 yen from the previous survey conducted in 2003, according to the results of the survey released Tuesday.
Meanwhile, the average annual wage for single mothers stood at 1.71 million yen, up 90,000 yen from the previous survey.


The ministry conducted the survey in November 2006. It covered 1,517 randomly selected single mother households and 199 single father households nationwide. The employment rate for single mother households was 84.5 percent, up 1.5 percentage points from the previous survey.
(Oct. 19, 2007)

http://www.yomiuri.co.jp/dy/national/20071019TDY02304.htm

Ibig sabihin, tayong mga single mothers ay nabubuhay ng below the average a consedered na mga pobre sa Japan. Ganun nga di ba?

[summergirl]

I admire and respect those single mothers,imagine they can raise their child even in a strange coutry like Japan..You can count on me too.And enjoy your stay here..

[louvette_15]

i salute every single mom here in tf. mahirap nga kahit may asawa, pano pa ung single mom...?kelangan yata nyan braveheart..

welcome sa'yo, singlemom san. wish you all the strength pati din dun sa ibang single moms. if you need a listener, im a PM away from you. type nyo lng gusto nyong i-share. rest assured il read it.

[mtwalton]

ganbatte minasan. I am supporting all of you and so proud of you all.

I was a single mother too. My first husband died by a car accident ( was killed) when my two kids were just elementary grade. Son who was 3rd grade and daughter 2nd. It was a shocking for the family and ....I just did my best. Thanks God the goverment help us and had support and we were living in Toei Housing which has an exemption sa house rent..I worked in Trading company who my boss is fromTurkey and have his own business, in Saitama, I am in Hachioji. I drove everyday 2 hours for work.nakilala ko siya sa computer. I worked with him maybe 4 years and he was very supportive person. Now my kids are teen agers, my son gratuated high school , and next year he'll be 20yrs.old na and his working as a cook, my daughter is still on her 3rd yr,HS. its tough when you were raising children by yourself and like when each were becoming like what you say " toshigoro". specially one is a boy.and one is girl..

but Thanks God naman they were very helpful. yes. sometimes problem here problem there,but thats just a part of every day life desune... I re-married 4 years ago . So maybe hindi na ko masasabing single mom? but any thing I can do, I am willing to help...

So sa mga single mother, ganbareba dou ni ka narimasuyo....:D

[louvette_15]

ganbatte minasan. I am supporting all of you and so proud of you all.

I was a single mother too. My first husband died by a car accident ( was killed) when my two kids were just elementary grade. Son who was 3rd grade and daughter 2nd. It was a shocking for the family and ....I just did my best. Thanks God the goverment help us and had support and we were living in Toei Housing which has an exemption sa house rent..I worked in Trading company who my boss is fromTurkey and have his own business, in Saitama, I am in Hachioji. I drove everyday 2 hours for work.nakilala ko siya sa computer. I worked with him maybe 4 years and he was very supportive person. Now my kids are teen agers, my son gratuated high school , and next year he'll be 20yrs.old na and his working as a cook, my daughter is still on her 3rd yr,HS. its tough when you were raising children by yourself and like when each were becoming like what you say " toshigoro". specially one is a boy.and one is girl..

but Thanks God naman they were very helpful. yes. sometimes problem here problem there,but thats just a part of every day life desune... I re-married 4 years ago . So maybe hindi na ko masasabing single mom? but any thing I can do, I am willing to help...

So sa mga single mother, ganbareba dou ni ka narimasuyo....:D

you're an inspiration!!! i salute you sister...

[singlemom]

Maraming salamat louvette at inspiring mwalton. Sa totoo lang may nanliligaw sa akine pero natatakot ako at hindi ko alam kung papaano ang magiging relasyon ng mga anak ko sa kung sakaling may mapangasawa ako. How to overcome this fear kaya. Mother tayo syempre at hindi natin pwedng ipagpalit sa kung sino ang ating mga anak....

[may_abe]

Maraming salamat louvette at inspiring mwalton. Sa totoo lang may nanliligaw sa akine pero natatakot ako at hindi ko alam kung papaano ang magiging relasyon ng mga anak ko sa kung sakaling may mapangasawa ako. How to overcome this fear kaya. Mother tayo syempre at hindi natin pwedng ipagpalit sa kung sino ang ating mga anak....


:D be single mom nalang...no fear use NIKE. (joke lang) para sa akin, kailangan mo rin ng katuwang sa pagpapalaki ng mga anak mo. Be wise if ever na e open mo yung heart mo. May mga mabubuting lalaki naman dyan. Ingat lang na hindi ka uli sasaktan at put priority sa mga kids.Siguro pag natapos mo na responsibility mo as a mother,free ka na rin for a personal love affair. Huwag ka matakot masaktan,go out with guys, just like friendly dates.

[mtwalton]

Oh yeah! enjoy and just be easy. huwag kang mag woworry too much...and open ka
sa partner mo. yes sometimes its hard to think na papaano na lang pag napamahal na ako , yung mga anak ko ano na lang ang magiging feelings but.... sa akin naman, my priority first ay yung mga bata. I don't want na aabalahin ko sila dahilan lang sa akin ,then someday ako ang mablame nila...u know what Im saying?, but awa ng diyos understanding naman si husband ko at siya rin he raised two kids too( malalaki ng mga ank nya nung nakilala ko siya, kaya naiintindihan nyang situation ko at sometimes siyang advisor ko ,and he is very supportive..my point is depende sa partner mo. ganbatte...:p

Maraming salamat louvette at inspiring mwalton. Sa totoo lang may nanliligaw sa akine pero natatakot ako at hindi ko alam kung papaano ang magiging relasyon ng mga anak ko sa kung sakaling may mapangasawa ako. How to overcome this fear kaya. Mother tayo syempre at hindi natin pwedng ipagpalit sa kung sino ang ating mga anak....

[mtwalton]

arigato.:) ....because sa mga supporta ng family ko and the other people around me, nakaraos din sa help ng God and most na arigatai no wa , is my kids are healthy and I am healthy too...and sa husband ko now. :D

minasan mo sikkari to ganbatte kudasai:p

" Don't worry by the things, co'z every little things gonna be a'lright".....:D

you're an inspiration!!! i salute you sister...