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simplymystic
11-11-2007, 02:32 AM
Just curious about this matter ....yoroshiku po...:)

may_abe
11-11-2007, 10:40 AM
I would prefer Atomic Bomb :D if love comes but it was not meant for you...

simplymystic
11-11-2007, 01:08 PM
Masyado kasing in na in sa mga hapon ang platonic love,Actually marami na kong mga haponesang nakasalamuha at napakinggan ang kanilang mga love life....

Madali lang sa kanilang humanap ng partner thru deai site ...Okey lang sa kanila ang touch and go relationship....SEKI NIN KANKENAI sabi nga nila...they ussually call it SEFURE ...

Naisip ko iba pa rin talaga ang mga Filipinos....ano sa palagay nyo?

docomo
11-11-2007, 02:06 PM
I don't know anything about studies, but I really don't think they can accurately measure such a thing anyway. One thing that you KNOW when it comes to having someone who is asexual say that they love you, is that they TRULY love YOU...your mind, your soul, your heart...and it's not all confused with hormones and lust. It's you as a PERSON that counts, not just what kind of equipment your body has.

Far to many people marry for things that are fleeting or easily lost. Money, fame, great sex, wanting children, looks or appearances, etc. etc. etc...but all those things can be so easily lost. The only lasting thing is the soul and companionship, and that should be the first thing marriage is about, all the rest is just gravy. Unfortunately in today's society it's mostly about sex, looks, and wanting kids...and look at the divorce rates. ..

Nevertheless, platonic love is more valuable .. its purity , complete understanding ,acceptance of the soul and with the spirit... my 2 cents :)

aj_4983
11-11-2007, 02:51 PM
Just curious about this matter ....yoroshiku po...:)

yes...
They say that LOVE is a feeling of affection/attraction to another. Intimate interpersonal relationship. This word has variety of related but distinct meanings..and platonic love is one of those... a close relationship in which sexual desire is non-existent...
I LOVE my husband
but not the way I LOVE my "bestfriend":)

hazuki
11-11-2007, 04:09 PM
:yesyes: kasi it's stay longer and it's uncoditional.wala ka kising kontrata eka nga:D

infinite_trial
11-11-2007, 08:22 PM
e di kung ganun din lang...nagmongha na lang sana ako :hihi:

i can get platonic love from a best friend, why would i need another one from a lover?

la_tina512
11-11-2007, 09:13 PM
Hindi puwede sa akin ang platonic love. Sabi nga ni Webster about platonic love in part ~ or being a relationship marked by the absence of romance or sex. Sarap pa namang i-express ang love through romance and sex lalo na pag mahal na mahal mo partner mo. Parang pagkain na pinatatakam ka lang :D. Hindi ko kayang titigan lang sya :D.

greatbarrier
11-12-2007, 07:01 AM
i think platonic love is possible...it happens to me... when i was doing my mba, i found myself going out consistently with a guy classmate....almost everyday...our other classmates construed us as couples to the point that his gf broke up with him because of me...wala syang sinasabi...kumbaga MU (malabong usapan :D ) so i don't wanna speculate...kahit pa nga those things that he did eh ginagawa lang ng mga guys courting women....and i couldn't help it...i fell for him... so i decided to distance from him... to the point of moving to a different apt and changing my mobile phone...but he made ways para mabalik kami sa dati.... gusto ko sana sya i-confront about it but di ko kasi alam if i'm ready to hear what he will say heheheh kaya i decided to let things stay as they are... kasi baka masira pa friendship namin... but i somehow put shield on me kasi baka ma-fall na naman ako.... :)

now, we're really good friends... & convinced na ko na what's between us is really platonic love...purely friendship and nothing more... :)

simplymystic
01-06-2008, 01:06 AM
i think platonic love is possible...it happens to me... when i was doing my mba, i found myself going out consistently with a guy classmate....almost everyday...our other classmates construed us as couples to the point that his gf broke up with him because of me...wala syang sinasabi...kumbaga MU (malabong usapan :D ) so i don't wanna speculate...kahit pa nga those things that he did eh ginagawa lang ng mga guys courting women....and i couldn't help it...i fell for him... so i decided to distance from him... to the point of moving to a different apt and changing my mobile phone...but he made ways para mabalik kami sa dati.... gusto ko sana sya i-confront about it but di ko kasi alam if i'm ready to hear what he will say heheheh kaya i decided to let things stay as they are... kasi baka masira pa friendship namin... but i somehow put shield on me kasi baka ma-fall na naman ako.... :)

now, we're really good friends... & convinced na ko na what's between us is really platonic love...purely friendship and nothing more... :)

nice story sis...thanks for sharing...:) :) :):toast:

gabby
01-06-2008, 06:57 AM
Just curious about this matter ....yoroshiku po...:)

PLatonic love does happen. It is okay to practice platonic love but it does really require an absolute control of yourself. You need to be completely sane,clear thinking so you can exercise self-discipline. Platonic love is necessary when there is a moral hindrance to freely expressing your love through sex.

I am having platonic love at the moment and it remains as it is as long as we can restrain ourselves.

I believe that one can never be wrong when he is in love, and if it is wrong to love, then I don't want to be right.:p

simplymystic
01-06-2008, 11:41 AM
PLatonic love does happen. It is okay to practice platonic love but it does really require an absolute control of yourself. You need to be completely sane,clear thinking so you can exercise self-discipline. Platonic love is necessary when there is a moral hindrance to freely expressing your love through sex.

I am having platonic love at the moment and it remains as it is as long as we can restrain ourselves.

I believe that one can never be wrong when he is in love, and if it is wrong to love, then I don't want to be right.:p

I like your quotes gabbs........thanks. ....:)

simplymystic
01-06-2008, 05:14 PM
e di kung ganun din lang...nagmongha na lang sana ako :hihi:

i can get platonic love from a best friend, why would i need another one from a lover?

Hindi puwede sa akin ang platonic love. Sabi nga ni Webster about platonic love in part ~ or being a relationship marked by the absence of romance or sex. Sarap pa namang i-express ang love through romance and sex lalo na pag mahal na mahal mo partner mo. Parang pagkain na pinatatakam ka lang :D. Hindi ko kayang titigan lang sya :D.

:) thanks for sharing your thoughts...:)

still waiting replies from the others..yoroshiku... ..;)