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batusai22
12-02-2007, 12:00 AM
hello po mga ka tf... sapalagay nyo ba dapat bang pairalin mo muna yung puso keysa sa utak o utak keysa sa puso pagdating sa buhay pagaasawa? natanong ko lang para naman magkaroon ng idea yung mga ka tf natin na nagbabalak pa lang mag asawa.

simplymystic
12-02-2007, 12:03 AM
mind over heart or heart over mind ????:confused: :confused: :confused: well I cant answer it literally coz it depends upon the situation....:p :p :p

yuki10
12-02-2007, 12:03 AM
siguro sa ngayon mas pinaiiral na ang utak.sa hirap ng buhay.
pero hindi mo rin kasi masasabi eh basta nakita mo sya un na yun kahit pa sabihing gusto mo ng mag-asawa kung wala ka pa namang nakikitang magiging kasama mo.un lang po ang sa tingin ko ha. pero ako po madalas puso po eh:)

summergirl
12-02-2007, 12:06 AM
you cant live kung love lang at kumukulo ang tyan..Utak first tapos napag aaralan naman ang love kung karapat dapat mahalin..

simplymystic
12-02-2007, 12:07 AM
you cant live kung love lang at kumukulo ang tyan..Utak first tapos napag aaralan naman ang love kung karapat dapat mahalin..

naksssss ! ayos ang comment mo jan sis....;)

schelle
12-02-2007, 12:07 AM
utak syempre..hehehe:)

summergirl
12-02-2007, 12:08 AM
utak syempre..hehehe:)




3 postings na lang sis..gambatte.

yuki10
12-02-2007, 12:09 AM
siguro po depende na lang din po sa sitwasyon.:)

summergirl
12-02-2007, 12:09 AM
naksssss ! ayos ang comment mo jan sis....;)


iko quote na naman ako ni Timbog.hahaha..ok lang sis..

schelle
12-02-2007, 12:11 AM
3 postings na lang sis..gambatte.
hihihihihi..:sssh: nonsense na pinopost ko hehehe...:D:D:D

summergirl
12-02-2007, 12:19 AM
hihihihihi..:sssh: nonsense na pinopost ko hehehe...:D:D:D

Ok lang boto na sis..wait kita dun..Thanks

louvette_15
12-02-2007, 12:22 AM
paiiyakin mo na nman ba ako tots? alam mo kasing hindi ko palagpasin thread mo no...

when i married my husband it was because of love... from the beginning i already knew what might come because financially speaking, he is not that well established.. i imagined every possible things that may come along the way, and i thought i can conquer it all. i will cross the bridge when i get there, i said to myself. besides, i told my self why would i be afraid of financial hardship when im not handicap...i can work too. then came my little angel. i quit working. i really don't mind sacrifices because i have saved money that can support my personal needs until my baby can be left so i can work again. you see, it's not really money but my feelings.

about what happened today (i ran away for hours because my hubby wont let me eat mc donalds) it was not about money, really. i told you i can buy myself with whatever i want. what hurt me was that my request was not being granted when i only asked that he accompany me to mcdo. i cried and ran away because i felt or feel self-pity. you and sister bought ipod and luxurious things while i don't, when it should be the other way around because im the ate and i took you all from the philippines. i know its bad to feel this way, but i just can't control it. im just human. the mcdo thing was just the triggering factor of my outburst...

sometimes, money issue gets in the way in the couples relationship. i understand that. but most of all, it's the attitude towards each other that provokes that money issue to come along. even to this hour that im feeling bad, i don't regret i married my man because of love...

ano bro, nose bleed ka ngaun?

dear_mommy
12-02-2007, 01:03 AM
mas pinili ko ang puso..so masasabi ko pa ring importante ang puso..:D pero kagaya ng sabi ni ms. summergirl na kung umabot to the point na wala din lang kakainin..maybe then i would consider choosing mind over heart... :)

ICHIBAN08
12-02-2007, 01:26 AM
Ako nung una ginamit ko ang utak, hindi man mayaman ang asawa ko pero naisip ko kasi hapon siya pero nung nagsama na kami tumitibok na yung puso, kaya puso at utak nagkasama na:) ...

batusai22
12-02-2007, 05:45 AM
buti na lng may pumansin sa thread ko,hehehe... dun sa tanong ko walang tama o maling sagot,depende lng talaga yan sa sitwasyon.pero kung ako tatanungin nyo? puso ang uunahin ko,oo nga hind ko alam kung ano future maibibigay ko,mahalaga lang sa akin mahal ko sya,dahil sa pagmamahal ko na un gagawin ko lahat, hwag lang maghirap... ibig ko sabihin sa lahat ng sinabi ko uunahin ko man ang puso ko,isusunod ko naman ung utak ko.

batusai22
12-02-2007, 06:15 AM
you cant live kung love lang at kumukulo ang tyan..Utak first tapos napag aaralan naman ang love kung karapat dapat mahalin.. nagugutom ka pala pag inuna mo ung puso mo,hehehe...joke lang! naiintindihan ko ung sinabi mo. pero alam mo hindi lahat ng tao pwede mo matutunan mahalin,hindi rin lahat ng tao karapat dapat mahalin ay pwede mo mahalin. tama ka hindi tayo mabubuhay kung puro pagmamahal lang, pero hindi lang naman pagmamahal kaya nating ibigay. ibig kong sabihin pwede naman natin gawing pundasyon ung pagmamahal lalo na sa mag asawa, dahil sa pundasyon na yun... marami magagandang bagay pwede natin gawin,tulad na lang halimbawa magsikap tayo sa buhay para hindi maghirap ung pamilya natin. summergirl san hindi ko po sinasabi na mali po kayo nagkataon lang magkaiba tayo ng opinion.hwag po kayo magalit nagpapaliwanag lang, natakot noh? hehehe....joke!!!:)

batusai22
12-02-2007, 06:29 AM
paiiyakin mo na nman ba ako tots? alam mo kasing hindi ko palagpasin thread mo no...

when i married my husband it was because of love... from the beginning i already knew what might come because financially speaking, he is not that well established.. i imagined every possible things that may come along the way, and i thought i can conquer it all. i will cross the bridge when i get there, i said to myself. besides, i told my self why would i be afraid of financial hardship when im not handicap...i can work too. then came my little angel. i quit working. i really don't mind sacrifices because i have saved money that can support my personal needs until my baby can be left so i can work again. you see, it's not really money but my feelings.

about what happened today (i ran away for hours because my hubby wont let me eat mc donalds) it was not about money, really. i told you i can buy myself with whatever i want. what hurt me was that my request was not being granted when i only asked that he accompany me to mcdo. i cried and ran away because i felt or feel self-pity. you and sister bought ipod and luxurious things while i don't, when it should be the other way around because im the ate and i took you all from the philippines. i know its bad to feel this way, but i just can't control it. im just human. the mcdo thing was just the triggering factor of my outburst...

sometimes, money issue gets in the way in the couples relationship. i understand that. but most of all, it's the attitude towards each other that provokes that money issue to come along. even to this hour that im feeling bad, i don't regret i married my man because of love...

ano bro, nose bleed ka ngaun? nagdrama ka na naman sis... daanin na lang natin sa maboteng usapan.hehehe.... isipin mo na lang na tao ka kaya mo nararanasan yan.hehehe...
naaalala ko tuloy kanina,iyakin k pa rin....

miyuki
12-02-2007, 07:00 AM
there's a thread existing na din po similar to this....:) madami po replies d2 ..
http://www.timog.com/forum/showthread.php?t=621

k_e_n_k_a_y
12-02-2007, 08:59 AM
ako pinairal ko ang heart ko. first time tumibok at yon na rin yon. wala siyang work that time, sabi ko basta may love you will endure all things. we started sa wala. then after six months we got married, nag-abroad siya. after 1 year me naipundar na kami, nagkaron ng sasakyan, nagkaron ng bahay at lupa, sa pagtutulong namin.

kaso, huhuhu... after 3 years nambabae ang mokong... at buntis pa... kaya naghiwalay ang decolor sa puti... hehe...:D

shakey
12-02-2007, 09:24 AM
ako mas pipiliin ko puso ko:) subok ko na po ito:D

batusai22
12-02-2007, 05:48 PM
there's a thread existing na din po similar to this....:) madami po replies d2 ..
http://www.timog.com/forum/showthread.php?t=621 ganoon po b?...sorry new kasi ako dito,hayaan mo babasahin ko.salamat....:)