naughtymeeh
01-16-2008, 09:14 PM
LAdies,if you want to have a successful dating...or relationship here are some tips...from a guru...hehhe...certa in phrases should never,come out from your glossy lips.Here they are
1.WHEN WILL I SEE YOU AGAIN...?Just like the song.....You`ll see him when you see him.If he wants to see you again,he`ll call.If not,next,you dont have time for anyone that doesn`t have time for you ...YOU...
2.WHY DID`Nt YOU CALL???Never...Never ....ever say this to HIM.There`s only one answer to this question.Because he did`nt want to!!!!What your asking is,"Why didn`t you want to call me????"Who knows! THere could be a lot of reasons,but ypu shoul`dnt be sitting around wondering WHY?You should be out dating lots of different guys and not worrying about ...ONE GUY>>>>Don`t be quick to put all of your eggs into one basjet,because if they break,it`s a big mess.
3.Where Were YOU?If he wanted you to know he was,he`D tell you.What you`re really asking is"Where you with another girl that you like better than me???YYour insecurity is showing my dear.If anything,he should be wondering where you were..
4.I LOVE YOU (FIRST)...You`re saying it in the hope`s that he`ll say it back,but if he doesn`t?You`ll be devastated and probably feel foolish.Saying" I LOVE YOU" is not going to speed things up if hee`s not ready to say it back....or for a relationship.So just cool it and let him be the first to say it when his ready.
5.DID YOU SLEEP WITH HER? As long as he`s not sleeping with her now,who cares?The past is gone.Don`t torture yourself ( & him) with these thoughts.In this case,ignorance really is bliss.:D
6.IM PREGNANT.In 2005,with all the birth control choices availabe,there is no excuse,for becoming pregnant,unless you want tobe...or can`t control it...:D You should be using something or he shoul`d use a condom,its fine.
7.WHERE IS THIS REALATIONSHIP GOING?No where fast if that`S your attitude.guys want someone fun and easy to be with,not someone that`s constantly worrying about the uture.His,actions are non-actions will tell you where it`s going.If it`s going somewhere,you`ll know it.If it`S not,youLL know it too.
8.WE NEED TO TALK?This is the equivalent o,"Go the principa`ls office".guy`s know it`s not going to be a fun conversation.So just casually bring it up when the both of you are relaxed.Don`t try to talk to him when hie`s tired,stressed or trying to watch his favorute games on TV.:eek:
9.I HATE YOU?Ever if you do,it`s really totally uncalled for an un-lady like.If there`s an issue,be mature enough to discuss it when you`re calm.If he`s breaking up with you,reacting with anger may make you feel better temporarily,but it`s best to remain calm and act unfazed.He`ll wonder why you`re cool about it and that may make him re-think his decision.Always be pleasant during breakup.Do ypu want to be known as a girl that goes psycho if someone breaks up with her????I did`nt think so.
10.I DONT TRUST YOU?What you`re really saying is "You need to step up your game,because ever sneakier.Better to think smart and act dumb,it`ll be better to get the evidence you need to confirm your suspicious.
1.WHEN WILL I SEE YOU AGAIN...?Just like the song.....You`ll see him when you see him.If he wants to see you again,he`ll call.If not,next,you dont have time for anyone that doesn`t have time for you ...YOU...
2.WHY DID`Nt YOU CALL???Never...Never ....ever say this to HIM.There`s only one answer to this question.Because he did`nt want to!!!!What your asking is,"Why didn`t you want to call me????"Who knows! THere could be a lot of reasons,but ypu shoul`dnt be sitting around wondering WHY?You should be out dating lots of different guys and not worrying about ...ONE GUY>>>>Don`t be quick to put all of your eggs into one basjet,because if they break,it`s a big mess.
3.Where Were YOU?If he wanted you to know he was,he`D tell you.What you`re really asking is"Where you with another girl that you like better than me???YYour insecurity is showing my dear.If anything,he should be wondering where you were..
4.I LOVE YOU (FIRST)...You`re saying it in the hope`s that he`ll say it back,but if he doesn`t?You`ll be devastated and probably feel foolish.Saying" I LOVE YOU" is not going to speed things up if hee`s not ready to say it back....or for a relationship.So just cool it and let him be the first to say it when his ready.
5.DID YOU SLEEP WITH HER? As long as he`s not sleeping with her now,who cares?The past is gone.Don`t torture yourself ( & him) with these thoughts.In this case,ignorance really is bliss.:D
6.IM PREGNANT.In 2005,with all the birth control choices availabe,there is no excuse,for becoming pregnant,unless you want tobe...or can`t control it...:D You should be using something or he shoul`d use a condom,its fine.
7.WHERE IS THIS REALATIONSHIP GOING?No where fast if that`S your attitude.guys want someone fun and easy to be with,not someone that`s constantly worrying about the uture.His,actions are non-actions will tell you where it`s going.If it`s going somewhere,you`ll know it.If it`S not,youLL know it too.
8.WE NEED TO TALK?This is the equivalent o,"Go the principa`ls office".guy`s know it`s not going to be a fun conversation.So just casually bring it up when the both of you are relaxed.Don`t try to talk to him when hie`s tired,stressed or trying to watch his favorute games on TV.:eek:
9.I HATE YOU?Ever if you do,it`s really totally uncalled for an un-lady like.If there`s an issue,be mature enough to discuss it when you`re calm.If he`s breaking up with you,reacting with anger may make you feel better temporarily,but it`s best to remain calm and act unfazed.He`ll wonder why you`re cool about it and that may make him re-think his decision.Always be pleasant during breakup.Do ypu want to be known as a girl that goes psycho if someone breaks up with her????I did`nt think so.
10.I DONT TRUST YOU?What you`re really saying is "You need to step up your game,because ever sneakier.Better to think smart and act dumb,it`ll be better to get the evidence you need to confirm your suspicious.