I'm looking for my dad

[zabie06]

Hi! I joined this online community with the hope of finding a way to contact my dad. He left the Philippines when i was around 10 years old. About ten years ago. His name is Abelardo Angsioco. He's in his 50's. If anyone here knows him or knows someone who does, I'd very much appreciate it if you can send me a message. Thanks!

[zabie06]

errr so i guess noone has a clue either.. :/

[sarpon]

is he here in Japan? why dont you check with the DFA or OWWA... they probably have a record of him. From there they can check with the Philippine embassy here in Japan and the embassy can ask the Japanese govt. for help.

[zabie06]

is he here in Japan? why dont you check with the DFA or OWWA... they probably have a record of him. From there they can check with the Philippine embassy here in Japan and the embassy can ask the Japanese govt. for help.

As far as i know yes he's still in japan. how do i do that? how do i check if he has a record with DFA or OWWA? by the way what does DFA and OWWA stand for?

[sarpon]

may I know where you are now? If youre in the Phils., visit the Department of Foreign Affairs in Roxas Blvd... they might have an idea about your plight. If you are here in Japan, better go to the Philippine Emabssy. Here is the link:

http://tokyo.philembassy.ne t/

[zabie06]

Philippines. yeah i'll do that. :) thanks!

[scion_cho]

Try contacting the site managers of hirokim.ph (http://www.hirokim.ph). I think their site aims to help those pinoys looking for their dads in Japan, although usually the dads are Japanese.

[zabie06]

LOL. i think my dad has japanese blood, not sure though. hahaha :P will do! thanks!

[onechantoh]

sabie pareho pala tayo ng hinahanap,kaya lang ung dad namin nakita na nila,for 20 years la kaming alam ,nor balita,pero alam namin ang adres nya kaya humingi kami ng tulong sa DFA para hanapin ang where about nya and they found him,but sad to say 5years na syang dead,nakakasock di ba,pagnaiisip ko selfish ang naging new family nya dun,syempre sila ang nakikinabang ng mga benifits na pra sa amin,till now di pa rin dumarating ung death certificate na hiningi ko sana kahit un man lamang mapasakamay namin pra kahit sa SSS may makuha si nanay,malungkot pero thats life we try to move on for the future.kaya kung mahanap mo ung dad mo give him all your love and affection kasi di namin naranasan nor nasabing how much they love him or did he love us ?we dont know ,kaya sis gudluck sa paghahanap:)

[Stacie Fil]

Wala ba siyang ibang kamag-anakan/kaibigan diyan sa Pinas na may kontak siya? Noon kaya, at saan siya napadpad sa Japan?

Sa Phil. immigration, na verify mo na ba kung di pa talaga siya bumabalik?

[bluesapphire]

i search nyo po ang name ng dad nyo sa mga website... friendster,myspace or namesdatabase... at marami pang iba... baka meron syang homepage, at dahil sa hindi mo mahanap ay baka ayaw magpa hanap...:confused: sana po mahanap nyo po ang dad nyo:O

[docomo]

kung may picture ka na naitabi pwede mo ilagay dito.. malay mo nakakasalubong na pala namin yung daddy mo or baka may makakilala sa kaniya isang member dito sa TF. :)

[zabie06]

sabie pareho pala tayo ng hinahanap,kaya lang ung dad namin nakita na nila,for 20 years la kaming alam ,nor balita,pero alam namin ang adres nya kaya humingi kami ng tulong sa DFA para hanapin ang where about nya and they found him,but sad to say 5years na syang dead,nakakasock di ba,pagnaiisip ko selfish ang naging new family nya dun,syempre sila ang nakikinabang ng mga benifits na pra sa amin,till now di pa rin dumarating ung death certificate na hiningi ko sana kahit un man lamang mapasakamay namin pra kahit sa SSS may makuha si nanay,malungkot pero thats life we try to move on for the future.kaya kung mahanap mo ung dad mo give him all your love and affection kasi di namin naranasan nor nasabing how much they love him or did he love us ?we dont know ,kaya sis gudluck sa paghahanap:)

aww ang sad naman ng storya mo. sige gagawin ko yun. pero kailangan ko muna sya mahanap ..

[zabie06]

Wala ba siyang ibang kamag-anakan/kaibigan diyan sa Pinas na may kontak siya? Noon kaya, at saan siya napadpad sa Japan?

Sa Phil. immigration, na verify mo na ba kung di pa talaga siya bumabalik?

wala akong kakilalang kamag- anak nya e. kaya wala talaga ako magawa dito sa pilipinas. ahmm.. andon sa isa kong post kung saan sya sa Japan napadpad dati.. d ko na alam asan siya ngayon e

[zabie06]

i search nyo po ang name ng dad nyo sa mga website... friendster,myspace or namesdatabase... at marami pang iba... baka meron syang homepage, at dahil sa hindi mo mahanap ay baka ayaw magpa hanap...:confused: sana po mahanap nyo po ang dad nyo:O


awww. tinry ko na eh.. wala talagang nagcocome up.. medyo matanda na rin kasi dad ko.. nasa 50's .. salamat po:)

[zabie06]

kung may picture ka na naitabi pwede mo ilagay dito.. malay mo nakakasalubong na pala namin yung daddy mo or baka may makakilala sa kaniya isang member dito sa TF. :)

wala akong picture nya e. tinapon ng mom ko dati nung naghiwalay sila.. sobrang bad3p. hahaha ayon.

[v_wrangler]

wala akong picture nya e. tinapon ng mom ko dati nung naghiwalay sila.. sobrang bad3p. hahaha ayon.

Well, you just need to exert more effort. People won't be able to help you out if you do not help yourself first.

Ask your mom, ask your mom about your dad's relatives. And start from there.
Your mom seems to be uncooperative for some reasons she can only justify, but if you explain your intentions well, I doubt your mom will refuse to divulge your long lost father's past.

[zabie06]

Well, you just need to exert more effort. People won't be able to help you out if you do not help yourself first.

Ask your mom, ask your mom about your dad's relatives. And start from there.
Your mom seems to be uncooperative for some reasons she can only justify, but if you explain your intentions well, I doubt your mom will refuse to divulge your long lost father's past.

Apparently you have no idea how my mom is. I am doing my best to get info about my dad. It's not like I just post on forums looking for him. It's not the only thing I do in search of my dad. Dont judge how I look for my dad cuz apparently you dont know what you're talking about. thanks!