super deep personal talks..(consultation of human feelings)

[nishizawa]

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some people have this attitude keeping their feelings specially when they feel very ashamed to themselves or to the people around then (why? its not hard to be who you are) not unless you really need to keep secrets for the sake of your good..
sometimes those kinds of attitude makes the person feel very stress and depress.. how can you cope not to unease feelings..lets share it

how can you say happy or shiawase in your own thoughts? does happiness means so much or your just happy when you feel happy..

some people says that their only happy but their not..(in the other way)
generaly how happy you are..

emotionally?
financially?
mentally?
sexually?
daily?

[torete_101]

sa palagay ko wala gaanong magpopost dito kasi humans by nature is pretentious.. pretending to be leading a good life, happy relationships, wealthy existence and etc.. :) medyo pessimistic lang ako sa outlook ko pero i think ganun talaga.. "reality bites and sometimes most of us pretend that we are not affected by it..." opinion ko lang po..

[angelica]

.........and ussually ,thread starter ang nauunang mgshare.

[shinshinobi]

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some people have this attitude keeping their feelings specially when they feel very ashamed to themselves or to the people around then (why? its not hard to be who you are) not unless you really need to keep secrets for the sake of your good..
sometimes those kinds of attitude makes the person feel very stress and depress.. how can you cope not to unease feelings..lets share it

how can you say happy or shiawase in your own thoughts? does happiness means so much or your just happy when you feel happy..

some people says that their only happy but their not..(in the other way)
generaly how happy you are..

emotionally?
financially?
mentally?
sexually?
daily?

First of all, thanks for starting this thread. I seldomly see threads like this one that digs within our souls in order to find out who we really are, what's our purpose and what should we do. To start off, I'll begin with happiness.

I know and I am certain to myself that I am happy. Even though I don't have the luxuries most people have like mansions, cars or cool electronic gadgets to entertain me whenever I feel bored. Happiness has never been a problem.

Happiness starts when you come to a realization that you will lose everything on this planet including you and your love ones in the end. If you're going to lose everything in the end, what's the purpose of gain? You must accept the fact that everything will come to an end. The next time you desire something, think ahead. Think what that thing would be in the future. An example of this kind of thinking is, when you see a new car being advertised on the teli, think of what would be that car like four or five years from now. Will it still look good? Will it still be that convenient to ride on? Definitely there will be newer models and once you're in this car and you see a much newer model, what would you feel?

financially?
Some people tend to look for happiness from material things. 'Say I would give you a million pesos and I'll let you buy whatever you want. At first, of course you will be happy. You'll probably buy things you think that would make you happy. Yes, it will certainly make you happy but not for long. Sooner or later, a new one will come along and then what you have is obsolete. Then you will desire of course the newer one and the cycle repeats.

Awareness. One ingredient for happiness is to become aware of all the things around you. Learn to appreciate all the things around you. Be thankful you have air to breathe and eyes to see all colors of the spectrum. A nose to smell fragrant flowers, feet to take you wherever you want to go, brain to retain memories of your love ones and a heart to symphatize with someone. Whenever I see an object, I see the people who created that object. Those people surely worked hard to earn the money they need in order to feed their family. Simple things makes me happy.

Sometimes, there are things in this world we cannot avoid. Tragic events like accidents or death. We have to understand that everything that happens or will happen to us in this world is normal. We are a piece of ball circling around the roulette of fate. It is possible for us to land on every number on that roulette.

emotionally?
If everything is normal, then what should we be happy or sad about? Since happiness is described as an emotional fulfillment, then I can say I am emotionally fulfilled.

mentally?
As long as I can distinguish between what's right and wrong, good and evil, black and white, then I am mentally ok.

sexually?
Sex is an act to communicate with a person spiritually by using one's own body as a key to unlock the doors of my partner's mind and bring us in a world of fantasy. I guess that's my own definition of sex.

[shinshinobi]

First of all, thanks for starting this thread. ....

pasensya na lasing lang ako nung pinost ko to.. :D

[Wreinman]

sexually?
Sex is an act to communicate with a person spiritually by using one's own body as a key to unlock the doors of my partner's mind and bring us in a world of fantasy. I guess that's my own definition of sex.

so, happy o makulay daw ba ang iyong buhay-pagtatalik? :lol::roll:

[shinshinobi]

so, happy o makulay daw ba ang iyong buhay-pagtatalik? :lol::roll:

hehehe... :D

zero nga actually dahil magisa lang ako ngayon sa bahay....hehe

[Gerri]

very interesting topic. I have some ideas but for now tulog muna ko. need lang mag-subscribe para di makalimutan ang thread :D