Advice and Insights needed...

[piNkAhOLiC]

This is the situation of my friend. advice and insights needed...

Ganito kasi yan, she was about to go to the US this coming May. But then sabi ng hubby niya eh he's not happy na raw with their situation. And he has another woman. He's American by the way. The guy has mixed feelings about her and the other girl. She still wants to fight for their relationship, pero parang wala na talaga dahil ayaw na nung guy... They're 3 years married na kaya nanghihinayang siya, and siyempre mahal nya naman yung guy.

Ang tanong: If you were in her shoes, would you still go to the US and try to fix things? :confused: Is it worth it?

[Hungry eyes]

Siguro if i were in her shoes,i will go once and will fix things.then kung nagawa na lahat or napagusapan na at wala na talagang magagawa..she must give it up na..para ano pa diba? kase hindi na happy husband nya.magiging hell lang buhay nya kung pipilitin ang ayaw na..sayang nga kung iisipin..mahirap talagang i give up yon lalo na at naging happy naman sila once in thier married life..kaya lang life must go on..she have to move own.thats my own opion..:)

[docomo]

@pinkaholic

.. I agree with hungry eyes opinion....but it won't scare me off..

.. For me I do not know what the future holds but I do know what it could hold both positive and negative... Both could have a change of heart ..

..What I do know is that whatever may come I can handle it because my relationship is a "part" of my life... a wonderful part...it is not however my entire life.

For all the women out there , no matter what kind of relationships you are involved in.... if you keep that in sight then you will all be OK.:)

[luccia]

hi sis pinkaholic,

yes i will go to US and fixing things not trying,
bcoz when you trying it didnt work out liked that.

i will go to US para sabihin sa kanya na hoy bruho ka umayos ka wifey mo ako
w/matching carino brutal.ewan ko nalang kung di pa siya maorthopedic sa
gagawin kung carino brutal sa kanya.

nung suotin ko ang sapatos na yan iisa lang ang motto ko
win win or lose lose
wanted to win then be a winner,
wanted to lose then be a loser

Marriage is not just about love....it is about adjustments,communic ation,
joy, passion,understandin g, though challenging; in-laws; babies!
..... not a Destiny .....but a Journey you face in your life.

nung hubarin namin mag asawa ang sapatos na yan iisa lang pasa ang ininda
namin, yung pasa sa puso. what did i get frm my husband just a simple
thoughts na umabot sa kaibuturan ng kaluluwa ko.

he said: anatadake ga watashiwo mezameta.
anataga inai to watashi wa ii otoko naranai.

yan lang ang nag iisang tarakamono ko na walang kapantay
ng halaga na ibinigay niya sa akin nung time na yun.

So Let's Keep the Good Vibes Rollin to ur friend:)