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midnight
04-23-2006, 04:32 PM
Hi guys, just wanna ask if u ever tried chatting online and meeting the person you chatted with ? Kasi lately, im into chatting and hes such a nice guy from North America. its like he inspires me and i always look forward to his emails,pictures and chatting with him. We even talked on the phone coz he called me..Its just like crazy coz i cant believe myself putting a lot if time chatting with somebody i dont even know...We talk a lot of things and we enjoy each other...
Share naman kayo if u have the same experience or if you had esperienced it before...thanks and ill wait for your replies.:wave:
greatbarrier
04-24-2006, 12:44 AM
Hi guys, just wanna ask if u ever tried chatting online and meeting the person you chatted with ? Kasi lately, im into chatting and hes such a nice guy from North America. its like he inspires me and i always look forward to his emails,pictures and chatting with him. We even talked on the phone coz he called me..Its just like crazy coz i cant believe myself putting a lot if time chatting with somebody i dont even know...We talk a lot of things and we enjoy each other...
Share naman kayo if u have the same experience or if you had esperienced it before...thanks and ill wait for your replies.:wave:
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hi midnight!
ok lang actually magchat and meet the person eventually! a lot of my friends actually met their husbands now thru chat! maybe they are lucky because they met honest people!
but meron din mga unfortunate cases....one time, i read from a newspaper a girl who was allegedly raped by her chatmate when they EBed....though parang one-sided yung story...kasi nagkaron ng sequel yung news...& lumalabas ayaw lang pakasalan nung guy yung girl after getting her pregnant.....
another case was mine! i got involved with a filipino guy from the net when i was in my early 20's. & after some time, we decided to meet! & that meeting did not become the last...but when it was time that i decided i really like this guy and be his gf, i found out he's married (separated) with one kid! that was the biggest shock of my life! u know what i did, sinampal ko sya! :karate:huh! balak pa kong lokohin ha! but i stopped chatting since then! sinumpa ko yata YM nun...:D but i got over it of course!
what i'm saying is, life is full of risks! if you think u really like this guy, then go! but as much as possible, be as level-headed as you are and be prepared for the consequences! the choice is yours! either be a risk-taker or risk-averse!
u know what, maybe i'm in the same predicament as yours now...the feeling that parang pareho ang takbo ng utak nyo! & like you, i also spend a lot of time chatting with him! right now, di ko rin alam ano mangyayari! & siguro, u have an idea what course did i take!
midnight
04-24-2006, 01:51 AM
thanks for the nice response great b..
goodluck to you and keep cool.
ayumi
04-24-2006, 02:06 AM
hi!midnight!
ang hipag ko na japanase,yung live-in nya ngayon na meet lang nya sa chat.super mabait kaya
lang parang dork...ewan ko baka sa looks lang...pero ok naman sila,yan na yata ang uso ngayon.pero kung kapatid kita hindi kita papayagang ma-in love sa taong na meet mo lang
sa chat.mukhang beauty and smart ka naman.....sana yung na-me-meet mo na lang sana ng personal from the start.pasensya ka na sa advice ko,may pagka-old fashion kase ako....good luck! be happy!
japphi
04-24-2006, 10:02 AM
hi midnight....kaya pala lately ay hindi ka nag-lo-log in...?:p
Pero tulad ni ayumi san......kung ako rin kapatid kita o kamag-anak....babawalan kita.Mas maganda na kung sa una palang ay kilala o na-meet mo na then nag-cha-chat kayo.Kasi sa chat....maraming pwedeng i -pretend.Dito nga sa TF ay maa-addict ka/tayo sa mga topics....eh mas ma-a-addict ka kung ikaw ang apple of his eyes lalu na't pakita o paramdam ay mabait.
May mga ilang kakilala ako na sa kaka-chat nila ay nasira ang pagsasama nilang mag-asawa yung isa ay ka-live in nya ngayon yung naging ka-chat nya na walang ka-alam alam ang hapon.Dahil alam nya may bussiness doon ang pinay at andito naman ang hapon.....kawawa naman.
Okey pa sana kung dalaga...kaya lang kung may asawa na...better to think twice....the problem is yours kasi pag nagka-igihan.
Little Johnny
04-24-2006, 10:11 AM
meron din akong undesirable experience dito... hehehe
nag-expect kasi ako masyado... so i said, "go for it!";)
then nung mag-meet kami, na-frustrate ako. :eek: ... ang hirap bawiin nung mga sinabi ko..... ang hirap sabihing, "can we be friends?".... heheheh:D
since then, puro friendly chat na lang ako......:p
infinite_trial
04-24-2006, 12:03 PM
nyahahaha friendly daw o...
i met mah ex-bf (of a 2-yr relationship) thru chat. his friends and parents like me but i decided to breakup wit him.
DJchot
04-24-2006, 06:59 PM
meron din akong undesirable experience dito... hehehe
nag-expect kasi ako masyado... so i said, "go for it!";)
then nung mag-meet kami, na-frustrate ako. :eek: ... ang hirap bawiin nung mga sinabi ko..... ang hirap sabihing, "can we be friends?".... heheheh:D
since then, puro friendly chat na lang ako......:p
hehehe, same fate :D
di pa talaga ako binuwenas sa chat na yan...sabagay, kung byutipul nga naman, siguradong "taken" na at maliit na ang chance na mameet mo sa chatroom. ooops, im not saying na yung mga nasa chat ay di byutipul ha? baka mamis interpret lang po...
friendly chat na lang din ako...usually with my family na lang.
jazzybabe
04-24-2006, 07:58 PM
Hi Midnight!
share ko sayo about sa tita ko.thru chat din kasi,may na-meet sya.taga vegas yong guy...filipino,since child doon na nakatira.tita ko naman separated,may 3 anak...1yr na sila.
pababalik-balik na iyong guy sa pinas,tsaka super close na sa mga bata...kapag nagcha-chat (halos araw-araw)sila,hinahanap lagi iyong mga bata...para bang totoong tatay nila.yong eldest na babae,18yrs old na pro ayaw pa daw nyang magka-bf kc baka daw magalit ang Dad nya(yong taga vegas)
grabe talaga bonding nila...
docomo
04-24-2006, 11:45 PM
.. there are plenty of the hazards of global relationship .. and everyone gets to make choices..
it is so hard to say whether you will "click" until you have spent time together. i understand completely how someone can fall for someone online, but in person there are many more factors. you can show only the good parts of yourself online, but in person all things come out eventually. :)
.. there are plenty of the hazards of global relationship .. and everyone gets to make choices..
it is so hard to say whether you will "click" until you have spent time together. i understand completely how someone can fall for someone online, but in person there are many more factors. you can show only the good parts of yourself online, but in person all things come out eventually. :)
Pareng docomo, i couldn't agree more.
Pero anong advice mo, wag na lang makipagkita?
Your opinion is always valued. :)
meron din akong undesirable experience dito... hehehe
nag-expect kasi ako masyado... so i said, "go for it!";)
then nung mag-meet kami, na-frustrate ako. :eek: ... ang hirap bawiin nung mga sinabi ko..... ang hirap sabihing, "can we be friends?".... heheheh:D
since then, puro friendly chat na lang ako......:p
di ka kasi gumamit ng cam, he he,
well ito ang nagagawa ng technology di ba, for me, there`s nothing wrong with chatting, but there`s so much risk involve lalo sa mga girls, kasi nga you`re not sure sa background ng tao, sa guys kasi la problem....so be careful lang mga friends...care to chat anyone?? he he
DJchot
04-25-2006, 12:24 PM
di ka kasi gumamit ng cam, he he,
malamang di pa uso cam non kasi dr. j hehe
rhiverz
04-25-2006, 01:04 PM
meron din akong undesirable experience dito... hehehe
nag-expect kasi ako masyado... so i said, "go for it!";)
then nung mag-meet kami, na-frustrate ako. :eek: ... ang hirap bawiin nung mga sinabi ko..... ang hirap sabihing, "can we be friends?".... heheheh:D
since then, puro friendly chat na lang ako......:p
kaya pla he-he-he...:eek: :eek: :D :eek: :eek:
Little Johnny
04-25-2006, 05:59 PM
malamang di pa uso cam non kasi dr. j hehe
mismo, djchot! :king:
saka yung version ng YM noon, wala pang photo sharing... kelan lang naman yun...:D
better pa rin talaga magkilala muna kayo in person bago pumasok sa isang commitment... ;)
DJchot
04-25-2006, 06:35 PM
mismo, djchot! :king:
saka yung version ng YM noon, wala pang photo sharing... kelan lang naman yun...:D
better pa rin talaga magkilala muna kayo in person bago pumasok sa isang commitment... ;)
tandang tanda ko pa noon, 3210 pa ang top of the line ng nokia hehe.
tweetybird
04-25-2006, 07:09 PM
tandang tanda ko pa noon, 3210 pa ang top of the line ng nokia hehe.
reminscing... hhhmmmnn.. naabutan ko pa nga 5110 pero hndi yun ang binili
ko dahil 12k pa yun nun, ung mas mura nabili ko, 5k lang ang presyo,
naabutan ko pa yung unlimited text ng Globe... grabe dami ko txt sa isang araw
txt dito txt dun. Eh hndi rin sanay ang ate nyo sa email at chat so sa txt lang, mura pa.
Dun din may naka-EB ako isang supervisor sa isang kilalang compnay sa Pinas.
Guapo sana kaya lang mayabang. Nung txtmate ko pa lang sya, ang sweet at humble
sya. Nung na-meet ko na, naku lahat iniyabang, may kotse daw sya, pero nung nag meet
kami commute lang naman sya. Ang reason pa nya nahiram daw ng kanyang kafatid ang
car nya. Shinyungaleng! hehehe
So natuto ang ate nyong mag ingat sa mga ka-txtmate at ka-chat. Maraming
ka-chat or ka-txt na mabulaklak ang bibig pero hanggang salita lang.
houseboy
04-26-2006, 05:29 PM
Wow.... chat! Masarap mag-chat, lalo na kapag nangungulit lang. Dati, noong MIRC pa ang uso, mahirap kasi hindi mo nakikita kung ano hitsura ng kausap mo. Peo kung friendly chat lang, ano naman pakialam mo kung ano itsura niya, di ba?;)
docomo
04-26-2006, 08:53 PM
Pareng docomo, i couldn't agree more.
Pero anong advice mo, wag na lang makipagkita?
Your opinion is always valued. :)
thanks dcat for that nice compliment :)
..it is crazy that certain issues requires some stuffs .... i think if it is possible and you feel as though your life is at a stand still until you finally meet the person and are able to make a decision, then i think you need to meet...that is really the only way you will know whether it is time to move on or continue the relationship .:)
midnight
04-26-2006, 11:24 PM
i agree with docomo too..pero alam nyo nakakatuwa talaga ang chat...yesterday,nag ing advicer ako ng isang guy from USA kasi broken hearted sya..parang ang sarap ng feeling ng nakakatulong ka in such a small way.
pero i think im inlove na nga yata dito sa nameet ko sa chat from North America..he would send me videos of him,emails me everyday & he looks good..im really thrilled..
greatbarrier
04-27-2006, 04:49 AM
i agree with docomo too..pero alam nyo nakakatuwa talaga ang chat...yesterday,nag ing advicer ako ng isang guy from USA kasi broken hearted sya..parang ang sarap ng feeling ng nakakatulong ka in such a small way.
pero i think im inlove na nga yata dito sa nameet ko sa chat from North America..he would send me videos of him,emails me everyday & he looks good..im really thrilled..
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good luck, midnight! & wish me luck, too!
ako rin, malapit na yata mainlove dito sa kachat ko....bakit kasi ang dami nyang alam....turn-on kasi ako sa mga guys na witty :D ...one who can talk anything under the sun...kasi di ba when you get old, appearance fades...love may still be there but it's because of the companionship that you have with each other...companionshi p which emanates from being able to stand talking to him.....:)
rhiverz
05-01-2006, 06:53 PM
I have read in a forwarded email about the real meaning of chat rooms....
• Internet chat rooms – The moron interact
I am not sure if this is the real meaning of it but what I do understand about this is
you cant really find any true people inside chat rooms... they're about talking non-sense
or not true about anything or about themselves... ebeg sebehen, weg megpepenewele
se mge senesebe ng mge ke-chet... they are all making stories... that doesnt exist..
ANGELIKA22
06-09-2006, 12:41 AM
i met this guy through TF and he helps me alot kapag may questions ako regarding computers...my knowledge in computers is not sufficient enough pa po kasi..so until now he's my constant chatmate..my day is not complete without saying hi's and hello's to him and can not sleep at night without exchanging goodnight's and sweetdreams' to each other:p
silent_river
06-09-2006, 09:11 AM
:) :):)
dr_knockers
06-10-2006, 12:57 AM
i met this guy through TF and he helps me alot kapag may questions ako regarding computers...my knowledge in computers is not sufficient enough pa po kasi..so until now he's my constant chatmate..my day is not complete without saying hi's and hello's to him and can not sleep at night without exchanging goodnight's and sweetdreams' to each other:p
Angelika,
Hi there.
its nice to hear that, i hope your friendship will grow and last more longer. ang bait naman ng guy na na-mit mo sa TF...sana ma meet ko rin sya one day. hehehe. oopss! wag po jelly...:D
I agree with most of you guys, indeed, chatting on line is very relaxing. nakakaalis ng home sickness. it is one of my past time. Somehow, it really ease the boredom of my everyday life.
I met this friend also in TF...a very sweet, very friendly and very nice person. nde boring kausap, we talked a lot about anything...almost every night. A very possesive friend, though( i might add).
To you my dearest friend on line, i hope you won't change...stay good and friendly as you are now. Whoever you are, i really enjoy chatting with you. i am still willing to listen to your stories whatever it will be. I will never forget you...not now...not tomorrow...not ever.
You've got friend here...:)
greatbarrier
06-13-2006, 09:16 PM
hi angelika & dr.knockers!
agree with both of you! it's still possible that we can meet nice people virtually! i also met this nice person through the net. i met him outside tf actually & when he found out that i'm into japanese stuff he invited me to join tf, so here i am.
we used to chat & talk a lot, almost everyday actually! he's such a nice guy & very witty! whenever i'm down, he always has nice words to say to pacify my emotions! he's too good to be true! never in my wildest dreams that i could meet a soul as beautiful as him, a soul which seems to be connected to mine!
never have i said thank you to him for all the good things that he said! so i'm taking this opportunity (kahit medyo ot) to extend my appreciation! thanks for being a really good friend to me even if we've never really met in person!
i missing him though coz we've never talked for quite a long time now. i know that he's been busy lately & i understand that! & i just wanna let him know that if he needs someone to talk to, i think it's time for me to return the favor....
purpletablet
07-21-2006, 12:18 AM
i guess ok lang ang makipagchat kasi marami kang makikilang people from all walks of life, some are true some are false...as to my experience kung friendly chat lang ok, nevermind the appearance as long sa enjoy ka sa kachat mo..mag ingat kayo sa mga nangangarir (nanliligaw sa chat) wag agad mafa-fall kasi sa chatworld u can be whoever you wanted to be..maraming magaling magpretend, so mga girls wag agad mafafall sa mga kachat. mas maganda kung may connection sa chat then nagmeet kayo then nalaman mo na sincere talaga siya at consistent sa mga pinagsasabi nya when ur chatting pa lang at tumutugma sa kung ano ang nakikita nyo sa kanya when youre together..start from there..
god bless everyone! i need to go now, balik na lang ulit ako kelangan na po matulog!
msimplicity
09-17-2007, 12:00 AM
Hi guys, just wanna ask if u ever tried chatting online and meeting the person you chatted with ? Kasi lately, im into chatting and hes such a nice guy from North America. its like he inspires me and i always look forward to his emails,pictures and chatting with him. We even talked on the phone coz he called me..Its just like crazy coz i cant believe myself putting a lot if time chatting with somebody i dont even know...We talk a lot of things and we enjoy each other...
Share naman kayo if u have the same experience or if you had esperienced it before...thanks and ill wait for your replies.:wave:
ako sis ndi pa..
kac ung mga ka chat ko tiga Guam,Philippines,Kor ea..naku..anlalayo.. ung tiga dito sa japan wala gaano..takot ako weh..nahihiya ako..ewan ko ba..but of course in your case naman ok naman yan...mabait naman sya kamo dba?ok lng yan...
summergirl
09-17-2007, 12:03 AM
Ok lang iyon,basta alam mo ang limitations mo..
mtwalton
09-17-2007, 01:21 PM
I met my husband through computer.
He found my profile and sent me e-mail. I was tired at that time and sent him responsed so rude, but after all we chatt and chatt and then we're happily married. 4 years na.sad thing was he forgot our No.2 anniversarry, which is the day he sent me mail 4 years ago Sept 14th...:(
:love: penalty!!!!!
pinkheart
09-22-2007, 01:01 AM
chatting on line...tagal ko na nag cha chat sa mga chat room pero wala akong makitang matino kausap..puro pampalipas oras lang yata talaga...at walang seryosong makausap...pero bilib talaga ako sa mga people na thru chatting ay na meet nila ang husband nila..siguro ganun talaga ang destiny..di mo alam kung kelan darating...
honey
09-22-2007, 09:06 AM
Actually i have all the chances to chatt online pero seloso si Hubby.He's checking up kung sino ba kausap ko ano tinitingnan ko etc sa internet.And if ever na magkaroon ako ng friends kailangan babae whoever basta babae:D.I'm really interested chatting online specially with english people girl o boy may ipin o wala:p i just want to practice my english:).Nakakalimu tan ko na kasi english kakasalita ng nihonggo wahahaha!.
acoustics
09-26-2007, 03:06 PM
merong mga pros and cons ang chatting
nung college days na addict din ako sa chatting
kasi its a chance for you to meet other culture until
magawa nyo nang mag EB and then establish a friendship
which i think is nothing wrong with it. the sad thing here
is that i lost my cp so all of their contact details are lost also
including our friendship probably.
given the chance that we could meet up again, i will...they are my treasures, i guess
Faerie
09-27-2007, 10:25 AM
Ako, I met most of my friends online! :p :) Addict ako sa chat nung mga 1998-2000 eh! Dami ko nakilala at naging good friends, until now friend ko parin yung iba sa kanila. Not just online friend ha, we hang out together. Hehe!
Yung husband ko sa chat ko rin na-meet. :p Pero ngayon hindi na ako nagcha-chat... Hehe! Puro pervert kasi nae-encounter ko so wala ng kwenta. Hehe!
@midnight - Ingat ka lang lalo na kung makikipag-meet ka, at wag ka masyado papadala sa mga matatamis ang dila, hehe! Naku marami pa namang bolero at sinungaling sa chat!
shinshinobi
10-03-2007, 05:36 AM
hmm..mukhang nagpakasal na yata itong si midnight sa ka chat niya...
lumabas na yata yung canadian visa nya...
akala ko ok na sila ulit ng japanese na asawa nya...
hmmmmm.....
meron din bang norte.com?
baka nandun na sya....
aki^-^
10-03-2007, 10:24 AM
hmm..mukhang nagpakasal na yata itong si midnight sa ka chat niya...
lumabas na yata yung canadian visa nya...
akala ko ok na sila ulit ng japanese na asawa nya...
hmmmmm.....
meron din bang norte.com?
baka nandun na sya....
ito talaga si shin.... tsismoso!! hahahahahaha!!! ayos yan tol updated ka...Chika Minute!! hehehe:D
itchay
10-03-2007, 01:17 PM
ito talaga si shin.... tsismoso!! hahahahahaha!!! ayos yan tol updated ka...Chika Minute!! hehehe:D
haha...natawa din ako :D
shin, pabasa ng blog mo.....i'm sure mag-eenjoy ako :D
shinshinobi
10-04-2007, 12:50 AM
haha...natawa din ako :D
shin, pabasa ng blog mo.....i'm sure mag-eenjoy ako :D
ahehehe....syempre kailangan ng balita, kung walang balita boring...ahehehe
inaayos ko pa yung blog eh, magulo kasi hehehe.....pag naayos pm ko sa yo link :D
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