Sanity Check...

[Ashley]

OK, i really-really-really like this chick... she's cool and everything, but she's already dating this white guy. She already told me back then, that she only prefers White Boys or Spanish looking men and i am not her type. So, i already pack-up and go, going gone.... Now, here's the clincher, after 6 months... are you guy's ready for this!!! She started calling and slowly humming a different kind of tune on men of choice and asking me personal informations of my past-previous-present girlfriends with a seeminglessly never ending comparison between this girl and that girl... with herself. Remember, we are in the friendzone and no chance for a snowball in hell that she will ever like me.....

Question: Why is she still hanging around, can i just simply ask her to please stop getting in touch with me cause it's really-really-really hard to be seating beside somebody that who don't even like you.

Funny Comments is highly acceptable....

[chris_rock]

hehe, for starters you can stop answering/returning her calls/messages. :D

i guess she ran out of white guys/latinos to date; the reason she's bugging you. because she probably knows you had the hots for her.

good luck!

[Ashley]

BINGO!!! that is so true, this is one monkey i need to get off my back.

[DaVinci]

Hang on! Here's my share.....

Maybe the hot chick, as you call her, is in the "wants-to-know-you" kind of stage and she wants to test the water by starting to call you and comparing her with your other girlfriends..blah... blah..blah.... In short, she is on the driver's seat, controlling the direction and most importantly is up to something (I assume).

Here are the rules for this kind of chickababe:
1. Establish if you love her or not.
2. If you love her, i don't what to tell you.
3. If you don't love her and just like her to one of your babes then don't invest too match emotion and ride on whatever she wants. Then when the iron is hot, you will know what to do.

May the force be with you.:)

[bara]

Its up to you....if you really like the girl and you have great time with her then go,but kung naconfuse ka andmedyo na disappointed ka sa ginawa niya sayo dati siguro its better na cut mo na.

[Autumn]

OK, i really-really-really like this chick... she's cool and everything, but she's already dating this white guy. She already told me back then, that she only prefers White Boys or Spanish looking men and i am not her type. So, i already pack-up and go, going gone.... Now, here's the clincher, after 6 months... are you guy's ready for this!!! She started calling and slowly humming a different kind of tune on men of choice and asking me personal informations of my past-previous-present girlfriends with a seeminglessly never ending comparison between this girl and that girl... with herself. Remember, we are in the friendzone and no chance for a snowball in hell that she will ever like me.....

Question: Why is she still hanging around, can i just simply ask her to please stop getting in touch with me cause it's really-really-really hard to be seating beside somebody that who don't even like you.

Funny Comments is highly acceptable....

just be frank.frank conversation can prevent misunderstanding and misinterpretations.s abihin mo sa kanya..ayaw mo ng buto na nalawayan na ng aso..:eek:
siguro wala ng pumapansin sa kanya.at akala nya nagkakandadapa ka pa rin sa kanya..ignore her titigil din yan

[Ashley]

Cool, point taken and copy that.. to both DV and Bara, please frogive me guy's i made a similar posting on the other forum under isip o puso and kinda made some few breakdown on where i do really stand on this bus ride... But, anyway i kinda thought of that too... the "wants-to-know-you" question and answer portion... You see, the funny part is... she will start a conversation between me and her like the "getting to know u" program, and from out of nowhere "like wham" she will start sharing and telling me about the "DUDE" (ang karibal). Where did that thing come from... That's where my own skepticism walks-in, while i am trying to stay on our own topic/conversation (in which she started ) and for some unknown reason she will start telling story on she expressed herself on her BF. I was like, WTF was that..... Confuse, YES i think this chick works with the CIA and Master the Art of Psyops (Kidding) on the serious note, i believe she's only using "ME" as the guy who gives her emotional and psychological support on days or times she needs one, and nothing else. NO ACTION, here!

a. Yes, we can have a good time, and the conversation always end about her BF.
b. She does made me confuse.... try not to!
c. Yes, i do love her... but, this charade is starting to freak the living crap out of me.
d. And if, she's up to something she better hurry up and start speaking in plain human language. I am no mind reader!!! :)

Anyway, let me get off my soapbox....