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05-14-2006, 10:51 AM
I spent some time today looking and reading net. I found data portraying divorce rate is increasing from 60 % in 2001 to 70% in 2005 in most of the countries. In addition to that the second marriages are less successful. What is happening there and why this leads to the same end as the first meant to be forever?
Reading few sites I found interesting conversations among people. People are describing their views on love and its span over the years. Although, they are right from their stand point of view (mostly women), they are missing the second part of this equation, a Man, with whom they would like to be. It was obvious to see that all of them want to be independent, but is it the strength of the Woman to be independent? Each woman can earn decent income and live accordingly, but salt and water boils to one, the communication and relation to the person you share life. This barometer of people’s relationships has tendency to constant jumps and differs among families.
There are many factors, which predispose end of mutual life. I found also that women stayed in relationships, being unhappy, just due to their socio-economical status and because of children. Other broke the marriage and started new life to end it soon again. So what is wrong? In my opinion, the heart, inner beauty, receptiveness, responsibility, intelligence, emotional wealth, grace, and love to themselves and life are answer to the long term happiness of two souls, which keep union, forever....
We are craftsman of our own life, where kind of thread along with its color and qualities will determine the final picture of life tree. Young bride spends time, even years preparing herself to new life and designing this ornament, which will represent their symbol – union of two hearts and souls. Colorful emotion, depth of feelings, and abilities to be present and share allows smooth run in life. Later in years, when candle loosing bright flame, it’s two hearts who continue to keep light in steady manner through the years they travel. The wealth of human soul arises connecting two in even tighter knot they had before. The unseen energy of two and signals sent to the heart of loving soul will eventually touch them. Sensitive souls accept and decipher code while other fail, leading to constant accumulation of negative energy on their heart.
What person can do when he/she give all and when he/she is sensitive enough to all, but not understood, accepted as he/she wanted, and taken for granted with all her/his effort to make it work. People deprive themselves from the most valuable gift they received coming to earth – a life: to live, to learn, and teach ourselves in order to promote love on planet. All comes to one, the depth of human soul that influence on human love design. What happen when misplacement occurred, what happen when cards were wrongly mixed, what happen when mutations took place? You got your card and now it becomes your burden? Person has tried all their best and all he/she could, but the second holder played tricks on them. Marriage ended. He/she kept patience, one time to raise a voice not frightened to loose, but win a life.... Is it?:confused:
Reading few sites I found interesting conversations among people. People are describing their views on love and its span over the years. Although, they are right from their stand point of view (mostly women), they are missing the second part of this equation, a Man, with whom they would like to be. It was obvious to see that all of them want to be independent, but is it the strength of the Woman to be independent? Each woman can earn decent income and live accordingly, but salt and water boils to one, the communication and relation to the person you share life. This barometer of people’s relationships has tendency to constant jumps and differs among families.
There are many factors, which predispose end of mutual life. I found also that women stayed in relationships, being unhappy, just due to their socio-economical status and because of children. Other broke the marriage and started new life to end it soon again. So what is wrong? In my opinion, the heart, inner beauty, receptiveness, responsibility, intelligence, emotional wealth, grace, and love to themselves and life are answer to the long term happiness of two souls, which keep union, forever....
We are craftsman of our own life, where kind of thread along with its color and qualities will determine the final picture of life tree. Young bride spends time, even years preparing herself to new life and designing this ornament, which will represent their symbol – union of two hearts and souls. Colorful emotion, depth of feelings, and abilities to be present and share allows smooth run in life. Later in years, when candle loosing bright flame, it’s two hearts who continue to keep light in steady manner through the years they travel. The wealth of human soul arises connecting two in even tighter knot they had before. The unseen energy of two and signals sent to the heart of loving soul will eventually touch them. Sensitive souls accept and decipher code while other fail, leading to constant accumulation of negative energy on their heart.
What person can do when he/she give all and when he/she is sensitive enough to all, but not understood, accepted as he/she wanted, and taken for granted with all her/his effort to make it work. People deprive themselves from the most valuable gift they received coming to earth – a life: to live, to learn, and teach ourselves in order to promote love on planet. All comes to one, the depth of human soul that influence on human love design. What happen when misplacement occurred, what happen when cards were wrongly mixed, what happen when mutations took place? You got your card and now it becomes your burden? Person has tried all their best and all he/she could, but the second holder played tricks on them. Marriage ended. He/she kept patience, one time to raise a voice not frightened to loose, but win a life.... Is it?:confused: