FRAUDS... LIES.... imaginary or invisible friends...

[rhiverz]

Good morning TF!
I am just curious why some of the questions here in TF pertains to... for example... my friend is... my friend was... i have a friend who's... my friend is asking... but we all know that who we are pertaining to is ourselves... sometimes it sounds like hypocrisy to me for not being true to themselves... for making their "invisible friends" appear to be "them"
Sometimes, the way other people asked about "their friends" problem sometimes shows that theyre the one who has that problem... so in order for your problem to be solved or resolved... first be true to yourself... dont use "your friends" as the one experiencing it... coz it shows talaga sa mga replies ng thread starter or the one asking na sila talaga ang may problema and not "their so called invisible friends"
kasi kung gagamitin pa rin natin ang invisible friends natin to cover for ourselves... then pinapakita lang natin na TF community is a world of lies... and frauds??!
I find TF a great place to hangout lalo na pag gusto kong magbasa about whats REALLY happening sa mga kababayan natin dito sa Japan... but some i got irritated sa mga posts na malayo sa katotohanan...



@chubby. tnx for the comment.. mali ako ng location ng post... hehe

tnx sa concern..

[chubby_kulot]

tama ka sa sinabi mo rhiverz san :king: pero di naman kasi maiiwasan din ang ganon.. example na "i have a friend who is tnt before and she had a nihonjin bf now..they want to get married pero di nila..............et c..." or " i have a friend who is now a married to nihonjin but she have a child nung dalaga .............etc..." even they want to talk about their own problems they creating an "invisible friends" para maging daan to say their own problem in public....hindi lang naman kasi tayong mga member ang nakakabasa ng mga post at thread dito sa timog...so if the problem is they think very personal na... to think na baka maging iba ang "image" nya dito sa forum...dun na lalabas si "friend"...because they dont want all the people in the world will know that he/she the one who is having that problem...lalo na kung ang image nila dito sa forum is very "malinis"... :hihi: well,sino nga ba ang niloko nila...diba sarili lang din nila... :king:

ganon talaga ang tao...di lang magpaggawa ng "kwento"...kahit na mga "invisible friend" kaya na rin gawin ngayon...... kaya nga daw tinawag na "tao"... :hihi:

this is only my opinion.. peace to all :king:


@ rhiverz san..san ba kasi talaga :roll: ayan po nilipat ko na dito :king:

[halloween]

@rhiverz

Ikaw naman, pabayaan mo na, konting pasensya . Malay mo nahihiya na aminin na sila yon at sa ganong paraan lang nila pwedeng sabihin ang problema nila.

Tolerance lang kapatid. Ganon talaga dahil di lahat tayo ay pare pareho ng paniniwala. ANg importante ay maisulat nila dito at mahanapan ng solusyon ang problema. Sa salitang bading eh carry na 'yon, ride na lng ng ride.

Oh peace tayo ha. :)

[rhiverz]

ok lang po ako.. im not against nama sa way nila ng pag express ng problems nila.. im just stating my own opinion also...

when someone registers here.. nobody knows him or her dahil nga handle lang ang gamit (unless he or she already have friends here that knows him or her a lot) so why worry pa na mapapahiya ka unless lang po na hindi sila nagsasabi ng totoo... that would fall to LIES... our mods had been and will be more patient to people like those dito sa TF... action speaks louder than words sabi nga nila but how will you know if someone is telling the truth kung di mo sya nakikita thru his or her actions... so dun pumapasok yung mga words... written in letters... posts... or whatsoever.. dun malalaman sa mga words na ginagamit nila if they're telling the truth or not... if they're using imaginary friends to represent for themselves..





@rhiverz

Ikaw naman, pabayaan mo na, konting pasensya . Malay mo nahihiya na aminin na sila yon at sa ganong paraan lang nila pwedeng sabihin ang problema nila.

Tolerance lang kapatid. Ganon talaga dahil di lahat tayo ay pare pareho ng paniniwala. ANg importante ay maisulat nila dito at mahanapan ng solusyon ang problema. Sa salitang bading eh carry na 'yon, ride na lng ng ride.

Oh peace tayo ha. :)

[docomo]

... some people who vent here are more concerned about how will others will view him/her if we seen them over weight in life ....
that's the way people is(sometimes) and we can't stop it from happening ... give it time :)

[Raiden]

... some people who vent here are more concerned about how will others will view him/her if we seen them over weight in life ....
that's the way people is(sometimes) and we can't stop it from happening ... give it time :)

Hey! I'm not over weight, I'm big-boned. :mad: :tongue:

Yes, I agree with Docomo. It takes time to feel comfortable enough with people who we interact with, whether personally or online. :)

[chris_rock]

Good morning TF!
but we all know that who we are pertaining to is ourselves.

just a comment which i hope won't rub on you the wrong way; for all you know, they really might have friends or acquaintances in need of advice or something.

let's avoid making sweeping statements or generalizations...un less of course we have personal knowledge of the fact.

[tatamigurl]

you`re absolutely right! in fact, whenever they use that cliche, "may friend.." it makes the readers confused..parang ang raming personalidad na..lets nor complicate things..
i even feel ( sorry sa ma tama-an..) that, "my friend" doesn`t exist. majority, sila talaga ang person concerned. disclaimer: I`m not saying ALL...
so mga kapatid, if its you..its you...we`re all here to offer advice...

[michiko]

wala naman akong nakikitang problema o LIES na matatawag kung ayaw nung taong magpakilala..
kung sya nga o hindi yung taong involve dun sa case na inihihingi nya ng advice..kasi lahat tayo may choice na ipakilala ang sarili natin or keep it as a secret na lang.

kung gusto nya na maging private yun at hindi ipaalam sa atin wala tayong magagawa dun as long as hindi sya nakakasakit ng kapwa nya tf members eh wala akong nakikitang problema..
opinyon ko lang po yan..

[RAIN]

Sa akin No problem kahit gamiting nila my friend,sister,brothe r,father of my friend
People need advice and information.;)

[summerghie]

respect privacy as for my opinion. how could we know if she/he is telling the truth or not. if she is referring for herself or that particular person shes asking for an advice. what if its true..we cant just judge or let me say guess his/her attitude by those words we read ...we can be another person in the internet, because people can lie, can pretend, sometimes hypocrete too ;can create a character which doesnt exist..its their choice we cant demand that.some people are not so vocal in their life so they prefer to be a private person. :shutup:
we are family :grouphug: here in tf so let respect, love each other and most especially PEACE be w/ this forum... :mushy:

*** i hope you wont get me wrong;) :halo:

[mai]

ok lang sakin yung mga nagpopost jan na inihihingi nila ng advice yung mga "friends" or kung sino sino man yun.... walang problema sa'kin dun~ kung meron din lang akong pwedeng ibahaging sulusyon sa tanong magpopost reply ako at bahala na sya kung sya man yun o kaibigan nga nya:)

[megan]

Hayaan nyo na sila kapatid kung meron man silang imaginary friend, just let them be, kung ako nga meron din hehehe :roll: ... minsan kasi nakakahiyang sabihin into public ang mga secrets in life natin, kahit ako minsan pag-ayaw ko yong kausap ko or ka meet ko sinasabi ko kaagad "ay nakalimutan ko hinihintay pala ako ng friend ko sa kabilang kanto" so biglang nagkaroon ako ng invisible friend, so kahit saan nangyayari talaga ang ganyan hindi lang dito sa T-F at marami din ang gumagawa nyan para lang makalusot, parang ako minsan nyahahaha :biglaugh: :biglaugh:
anyway wala namang big deal dito, in fact nakakatulong nga eh! dahil nailalabas mo ang saloobin mo na wala kang pinapangamba na baka lumabas kang kahiya-hiya sa mga ka T-F mo... ibalato mo nalang sa kanila yon kapatid, basta kailangan nila ng tulong o advice nandito parin tayo di ba!... peace po mga kapatid :sweeties:

[wolfgang]

ako walang problema sa akin kahit...siya or kaibigan niya pa or what ..yung humihingi nang advice ...kasi as long as wala naman siyang sinasaktan na tao sa mga thread niya..ok..lang..mins an sa tao di natin maalis na gumamit nang mga ganyan salita...kung humihingi lang naman nang advice bakit di mo bigyan nang advice....at least nakatulong ka kung sino man ang humihingi nang advice...kung siya man yon or talagang kaibigan niya....diba:)

[rhiverz]

everyone is free to express their own opinions about this matter... im only saying my own opinion so if there are conflicts of interest here.. peace... some agrees, some dont... and we are all entitled to our own opinions.
observation ko lang kasi yun sa mga thread everytime they ask an advice...and there's nothing wrong about this... all im saying is there are people who tries to hide their own personality by asking questions about their problems or concerns by using "my friend"...
this is just my OWN opinion... tnx for also expressing your own opinions... no harm done...

[myukasky]

everyone is free to express their own opinions about this matter... im only saying my own opinion so if there are conflicts of interest here.. peace... some agrees, some dont... and we are all entitled to our own opinions.
observation ko lang kasi yun sa mga thread everytime they ask an advice...and there's nothing wrong about this... all im saying is there are people who tries to hide their own personality by asking questions about their problems or concerns by using "my friend"...
this is just my OWN opinion... tnx for also expressing your own opinions... no harm done...

Alam mo sis minsan naisip ko din yan, kasi kadalasan si my friend. Pero walang magagawa kung saan sya compatible. Ako once ko na naexperienced na humingi ng advice here at sarap ng feeling na maging totoo ka at walang pangamba na baka matisod si my friend or mahirinan kasi used na used na yung name nya.:D Kapag private nga naman ang pinag-usapan kahit si my friend na nanahimik nabubuhay ulit;)

[sensei]

No problemo here.

Anyone here in TF na kahit once lang eh hindi pa nagsinungaling?
post your name in BOLD LETTERS

SENSEI (uso pyong!!!):D
hindi naman apektado ang TF...

[honey]

May mga iba nga na humihingi ng advice na kesyo ganyan ganito friend ko pero sila pala ang may problema hindi maiiwasan yun e siguro para na rin sa privacy nila ...merong tao na gustong tumulong sa kaibigan baka kasi may mas malawak pa ang pag-iisip/experience dito sa TF na magbibigay ng advice para sa problema.:D

Osewa naman ang purpose ng TF FORUM diba...diba...aheheh e

[Little Johnny]

I think we can't blame them if they use their "friend" (existent or not) to share their problems and seek others' advice. Maybe they're just not comfortable to share, or due to some security reasons. To avoid being branded, so to speak.

Well, the good thing is..... TF people are always more than willing to help, no matter what the circumstances.

So whether its them or their friends, for me it doesn't matter as long as solutions and advices are sent across...

my opinion. ;)

[taki]

For as long as no one has violated the rules of this forum, i don`t see anything wrong with that. They have their own reasons for such action. There are cases that are too confidential that there is a need to use an imaginary friend. To me it is not hipocrisy or something negative. We are in a public forum so we just have to respect everyone`s preference.

Some wants privacy while others are willing to shout to the whole world talking about their personal life. What is important is that in one way or another, we have become a part of the reasons why some of this problems came out with a solution.